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Subject: Why does people judge other people ..... Author: Rick [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:18:45 10/03/02 Thu Why does people judge other people when they don't know them or what they are like ??? I am sorry but this have been bothering me now for a few days ..I have been call alot of things in my life but this was the first time for this .. "Your friends - if they are really friends - have let you down. At the very moment when they should have been cheering you on to a new start in life, when they should have been encouraging you for all they were worth to take the bull by the horns and "get a life" - at that moment some of them revealed how selfish they are. Some of them have sucked from you every ounce of love that you could give them, and when the time came to give you back some of that love they started complaining that you were forsaking them, that you weren't giving them enough time." I never thought of myself as being selfish or that I had use someone just for my own good .. I have always thought and put others before myself ..maybe this is why this hurt me so much .. But this was send to me by someone I didn't even know so how could they come to this ?? So why try to do the right thing if others believe that you are a bad person before they get to know you ?? I didn't ask these questions to hurt anyone .. or am I mad at anyone but just trying to find out why .. and also maybe understand better .. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date If this is from someone you don't know, and who doesn't know you, I'd TOTALLY blow it off. Trevor/TJ 10:38:58 10/03/02 Thu So why try to do the right thing if others believe that you are a bad person before they get to know you ?? Trevor/TJ 10:46:24 10/03/02 Thu I know this hurt you Rick and I dont think Steve meant it to YOU personally. He was generalising and I think there may have been wires crossed. He was just being protective of ME, as you have been before. Dont allow a misunderstanding to change you or stop being my friend...... (NT) Ashley 13:27:41 10/03/02 Thu Thanks guys for coming here and helping me ..No Ashley !!! I will always be YOUR FRIEND !!!take care ..*hugs* and thanks Trevor for everything ..I hope you get the job .. (NT) -- Rick, 14:03:04 10/03/02 Thu