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Subject: Thanks, bud


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Trevor/TJ
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Date Posted: 22:02:18 04/06/03 Sun
In reply to: Rick 's message, "The Little boy who only wanted a friend" on 10:24:18 04/06/03 Sun

Thanks for sharing a bit more of your history with us.
Thanks for trusting us enough to do so.
Thanks for your honesty and love those 20 years ago - even though he didn't deserve it - you did everything right, it sounds like.

I do hope you know what that really was, what it is called, and no, you are no more to blame than any victim. It was incredibly deceitful, messing with both your head and your heart - it wasn't even "honest" rape. It soulds like maybe he wasn't even honest with himself, that maybe a small part of him disguested himself because of close-mindedness. It sounds like it wasn't even "date rape" where the offender doesn't listen and doesn't know when to stop, because he planned it all out and was brutal, seems like, anyway.

I'm glad you're still here and I'm glad you're our friend, and I'm glad that writing about it puts it one more step behind you.

I do hope one day to give you a real hug. If that never happens, you know our souls will meet up in oh 40 or 60 years or so and we won't be grey or overweight or ill in that place!

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