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Subject: Re: How do you know if a band member is into you?

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Date Posted: 18:58:22 05/05/09 Tue
In reply to: Lara 's message, "Re: How do you know if a band member is into you?" on 14:22:48 03/09/09 Mon

In my experience, their on-stage antics don't mean much. However, if you are standing at the front of the stage where they can see you, and they are interested, they will find you after the show (IF it's a small venue.) Otherwise it's hard to tell.

I had one instance where the drummer for a european metal band told me, after I asked him what he was doing that night, "I'm going to probably have sex on the bus." And I was the only one he was talking to. I had no clue if he was *inviting* me, or had plans with someone else... It's so hard to tell. The only way to know is to come right out and tell them what you want.

>How do you know? Well he will show you attention while
>on stage for starters. That's why you should try to
>get up close to the stage. Then he will make sure you
>get invited backstage after the gig.
>
>The first time this happened to me, was with a beach
>boy. I was 19, and he was in his 60's. I was NOT there
>to get a band member, but even though I was with my
>parents he made damn sure I got backstage. Of course,
>I made sure that nothing happened lol.

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