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Re: follow up

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Jeff

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Date Posted: 10:43:54 07/30/02 Tue
In reply to: John 's message, "follow up" on 06:29:46 07/30/02 Tue

The time will come John when you will clearly see that Aoy has her own path to take. Whether she chooses to get help or turn to you for help is up to her. (I know you know that.) Accept who she is as she is, now. Maybe she is just one of those 'seasonal' influences in your life. Although you hoped for a future together, maybe this is an answer to your question. Maybe that answer is no. Your paths have crossed but its time for those paths to separate and head towards different terrains.
If you have learned something new due to Aoy, then that is what you were meant to learn.
I'm not saying you should leave her or you should keep trying, I'm just wondering myself if there is an answer here to what is in store for your life. Maybe if all was different and you both had very positive experiences on this last visit and everything regarding a visa just seemed to fit together, then it was meant to be. Maybe all this trouble is telling you, this is not the path for John, his path will take him elsewhere, to someone else.

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