| Subject: Stop with the lies!!! Destiny was an amazing Miss Maryland! If she actually did any of the things you are accusing her of, the board would have certainly found out and stripped her of her title. If you would just take the time to REALLY GET TO KNOW DESTINY you would know that this is all nonsense and know the truth! Stop being loons and living in the past. If it still bothers you this much go have a conversation with her.... sheesh. |
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Date Posted: Saturday, February 03, 01:00:36pm
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's message, "No one argues that her performance was superb and unique! But that is not everything!" on Saturday, February 03, 08:57:58am
Ugh more lies...... She never danced in a night club with wads of cash in her underwear?! Wtf is wrong with you people? Stop with that stupid nonsense. You are painting her out to be some type of stripper?! She would have never stooped so low.. She was a DANCER, nothing more.... she danced and also sang for a talent agency at many different venues and wore nothing less then what many of our former contestants who are currently cheerleaders wear. And no one seems to have a problem with them booty poppin in their dance routines.... so this statement is such a double standard.... She did what she could to make a living with zero assistance and no parental guidance or adult support, and for the most part, I think she was very responsible about her decisions. She literally worked herself from the ground up. Most girls that come from her situation either wind up on drugs, knocked up, or on the streets. She didn’t spend enough time on her education?! That’s because she couldn’t... she worked 4 and 5 jobs at a time just to keep a roof over her head, including having worked at a child care center for several years. If she could have taken out a loan she would have!! If you actually do your research instead of relying on your parents to do everything for you, you would know that most loans require a co-signer...... so without parents she obviously couldn’t take one out which logically explains her not being able to attend college for a few years. It would have been impossible for her to work multiple jobs and attend college simultaneously. Why do you think she decided to compete in the first place?! But guess what? Now she is getting one while teaching as a preschool teacher and she is continuously on the Deans List! If anything a story like Destiny’s should make you feel proud to be a part of this organization because of the possibiility it gave a girl who came from nothing to get an education. I would think that would be a form of validation for you and everything you hypocritically share on social media about this organiztion..... If she actually did any of the things you are accusing her of, the board would have certainly found out and stripped her of her title. The night she was crowned, it was apparent that the board was scared of her and the possibility of all of these lies being true. They dug the deepest in her past more than any other former Miss Maryland and you could see in Sherrys face that she wasn’t exactly the happiest when she won because she was afraid. It was only a few months before it was apparent on FB that her and Destiny became extremely close. The same with Bayuk. If she was so terrible do you think they would still be close?! Sherry still posts things about missing her....that in itself says a lot. The entire board also came onstage during her give up and were crying. You know why? Because THEY GOT TO KNOW HER! Destiny had to also deal with that nightmare because you loons created it. If anything Destiny deserves a major apology but it seems you are all too immature to give to her.
Did any of you ever try to have a sit down or lunch with her to express your grievances or misunderstandings? It seems like you may still need some closure since you are still making Voy posts about this 3 years later? It is extremely unhealthy to still hold grudges and so much hatred inside? If you don’t deal with it now, it will never go away. Why put yourself through that? Don’t you want peace? She is still in Maryland so I’m sure it wouldn’t be that hard to do so? But it seems no one really cares to do that because you want to believe what you want to believe to feel better about yourself and the results.
Also stop using the fact that 20 girls refusing to clap supports that she is this “monster” you made up. What they did was more of an embarrassment to themselves than her....so it seems that their immaturity bit them in the butt. At least there were a few that decided to clap and show some class.... something I would think you would have learned from “your years of competing.” It’s not like it was over 100 girls like most of the other state pageants. They were all in the same “clique” and competed for many years together so it’s not rocket science as to why they would stick together! I’m sure they also behaved the way they did though because they probably didn’t understand Destiny. They were mainly high school girls, so it’s not surprising that they twisted everything she said or did merely to create gossip and drama. Again if she was this bad why was she so close with the Miss America contestants or some of the contestants she competed with at Miss MD USA? Hmmm maybe that’s because they weren’t a part of your “clique” and got to know her!
As for rules being broken, it was her first year for crying out loud! I would expect her to struggle with timing and getting ready.....that takes a few years to master, especially in the pageant world LOL! How much time could she have possibly put into her platform her FIRST YEAR?! Don’t sit here and act holier than thou..... how many mistakes did most of you make your first year?! Instead of behaving small you all could have tried to kindly help her instead of talking behind her back about it. But no, at the end of the day girls will be girls......you didn’t because she was still competition so to make yourselves feel better you put her down and that is just a weak move. Grow up and take a look in the mirror.... you are better than that and you know it. She’s definitely different than most but is not a bad person....certainly aloof sometimes though LOL but no one is perfect! They do say that people who come from traumatic backgrounds can come off that way though because they disassociate a lot when overwhelmed or experiencing a lot of anxiety so maybe that explains why she can be like that at times.....either that or she is your stereotypical musician or artist LOL. Regardless she is one of the most genuine, kind, and humble people I know and she doesn’t tolerate bs or fake people. Therefore, I refuse to watch you still harass and tear her down after all of these years and the hell you put her through. If you would take the time to REALLY get to know her and stop being so looney you would benefit greatly from having a friend like her. It feels good to not have to pretend in front of someone for once and I don’t have to in front of her. Maybe her being an honest, thoughtful person throws people off because a lot of people aren’t that way..... I certainly thought there was something behind it at first but once I got to know her I realized the truth. You just have to take the time to put your insecurities and assumptions aside, open up, and get to know her. I mean have you seen her Instagram? She feeds squirrels and had a pet praying mantis for crying out loud LOL If that doesn’t say enough about her I don’t know what else does. I hope this provides some insight and that you learn some empathy. Please stop tearing down our current or former Miss Marylands! As women lets raise each other up, and be a positive example in our own lives.
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