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Subject: Re: its not a easy journey

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Heather

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Date Posted: 17:22:43 02/22/07 Thu
In reply to: re 's message, "Re: its not a easy journey" on 07:59:01 02/22/07 Thu

After reading your post, I can see that you really want to be a better person for YOU. I can see that you want to hold and love that granddaughter of yours and show your family what the inside of you is made out of and not what the drugs have done to you. I believe that you can do it, now you have to believe you can do it. People you love may say some hurtful things to you about how you hurt them or whatever, but you can let them know that when you get better, you will open that door for them and you to discuss that stuff but for now, you need their support to heal and not make it worse. You have to be willing to tell them this at least, yes I know I did this to Myself and hurt others along the way, and I willing to make this change, will you help me by just loving me through this and understand that I don't want this life any longer. My heart is right, now I have to work on making my head and mental health right.
That might be a way for your family to understand what it is you need from them. ANd if they don't help you in that way, you still need to help yourself and when they see consistency with your recovery and your new way of life, they will accept you. You have to change everything about your life. Get rid of your old friends and make yourself your best friend and learn to love you and then you will be able to really love others.
I know you can do it. I will be praying for you cause I know that a little girl needs her grandma and I also know your sons need their mother. I have two sons and I know they would be lost without me.
Keep in touch please, cause I am really lifting you up to God for this healing.
Your new Friend,
Heather

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: its not a easy journey	susan	08:33:07 02/23/07 Fri
susan -- Heather, 10:18:05 02/25/07 Sun Re: susan -- Heather, 10:45:19 02/25/07 Sun Re: susan -- SUSAN, 08:35:26 02/26/07 Mon Re: susan -- susan, 09:48:45 02/26/07 Mon