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Subject: Re: Update

Author:
Shelly

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Date Posted: 09:13:56 11/28/06 Tue
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: Update" on 09:03:01 11/28/06 Tue

Thank you for your messages. I am actually at peace with this situation as I have done what I felt was right for my daughter -the rest is in God's hands on how it will all play out. I know it sounds weird, but in some way I am almost hoping that he doesn't show up to court, they grant me that amount, and he doesn't pay. This would mean that he then would begin an even further downward spriral and maybe this being done by me will help in creating his rock bottom. Does that make sense? I want the money -my daughter after all the pain this man has put her through deserves the money -but I also hope that this brings him to his knees so he gets help. Is that dumb? I have completely let go of him emotionally. I have moved on and actually know that I could never ever have feelings for him again -and my daughter has been too hurt for them to ever fully repair the damage he has done to her budding self esteem and fragile heart when she finally let him and he left her again. I am at peace with the fact that he will probably never be in our lives fully again. But -he is also the father of my child -a human being -who I wish to not ruin his life and wish him health, happiness, and peace.
Anyway -Heather -I will do as you did for your court day...keep the door open a second longer to let God enter that courtroom with me. :)
Thanks for the responses! :)

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Update	Heather	12:20:40 11/28/06 Tue
Re: Update -- LISA, 03:17:32 12/02/06 Sat