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Subject: Re: Husband arrested - what do I do now?


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Shari
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Date Posted: 22:14:45 11/28/06 Tue
In reply to: C Bee 's message, "Husband arrested - what do I do now?" on 19:37:07 11/28/06 Tue

Wow! Having to depend on a meth addict for your income is very unstable! Sounds to me like his addiction is reaching the dangerous stage for him to be around.

I got my addict imprisoned for 14 months and only when I told him that if he doesn't get it together he can't come home, did he start getting it together. He's been out almost 60 days and everything is going great!

I did what I had to do. In fact, I did it from the hospital bed after giving birth to our youngest child, so I came home to an upside down house having to deal with a newborn and a toddler after having a c-section with absolutely no help whatsoever...I even drove home from the hospital...just so you know that I know how tough things can get.

You need to do what you have to do. If it is to find another way to have an income without him in order to be safe, then do it. Otherwise, if you want to use that as an excuse to have him back in the house and be abused physically, mentally, and however else it is happening, then so be it. You have to do what is right for you. I'd be telling him to get clean and do rehab or hit the road, and I'd find another way to make an income.

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