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Subject: Re: Long response.thank you all for your support

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Shelly

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Date Posted: 13:57:54 08/21/06 Mon
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Long response.thank you all for your support" on 09:21:42 08/21/06 Mon

I want to ask you a question. No -I want you to ask yourself this question: Do you give Spencer mixed signals? If so, than you can understand why he thinks you may want this -he may be able to break you down -why he doesn't go away. I think you need to think about how you may confuse him b/c you yourself are not 100% sure you DON'T want it. Your posts seem to be trying to convince yourself, but your actions may be helping to foster the disfunctional relationship between you and he. If you are truly ready to let go -there's no wishy washy about it and he will stop trying, but if you have doubts and days where you think you may want him back -he will zero in on that and use it to get what he wants. You need to do what you say and say what you mean and stick to it with this man or these phone calls etc. will continue. Get honest with yourself...do you somehow enjoy these calls b/c it valadates that he does still want you? Do you feel like giving in b/c you are lonely and crave the attention? Are you willing to settle? Do you want HIM or the idea of who he WAS long ago and probably will never be? I hope you are not offended by my post -I see a lot of myself in you so it's not to badger you but more to share what I have learned about myself so that it may open your eyes a bit wider and help you to say no....and MEAN IT!! :)

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Long response.thank you all for your support	Heather	14:22:06 08/21/06 Mon
Re: Long response.thank you all for your support -- Dawn (catching up.....), 21:17:20 08/22/06 Tue DAWN -- Heather, 22:07:41 08/23/06 Wed