Re: Heather -- METH HELP FOR FAMILIES

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Subject: Re: Heather

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Melinda

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Date Posted: 10:35:29 08/22/06 Tue
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Long response.thank you all for your support" on 09:21:42 08/21/06 Mon

It is so hard sometimes for us to completely let go. After reading the replies. I have to agree with them all. You are being manipulated by him. He has no good intentions for you or the kids. His intentions are solely for himself, and his lifestyle. If he really wanted to change his life and have you in it. Quite simply he would.....at whatever cost to him (not you). Try to think way back to when I was going thru this with Ryan. I remember clearly you telling me to not allow him back into my life. Though time and again, I did knowing and believing that I could make him see. ANd in the end, I seen how much all of your words were right.....and more than that how all of his were his self-righteous bullshit. It took me sometime, but I reached the end of my rope with him. And I still remember clearly when and where I was when I decided not one more day. No more. I am done. And it does hurt, but it will only make you stronger. The point is this. Only you can decide when you have had enough. You have the power and the support of your family and friends to get you through this. I know that it sometimes seems larger than life, and can feel debilitating. But you can do this. I know you can. Keep your head up, and keep asking God for help and courage to follow through with this. I promise if you truly seek his help, he will not leave you disappointed......he will only make you stronger.

As always...keeping you in prayer.

Melinda

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Subject	Author	Date
Melinda, and everyone	Heather	14:48:24 08/22/06 Tue