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Subject: Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings'

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Heather

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Date Posted: 21:33:48 07/02/06 Sun
In reply to: susan f 's message, "Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings'" on 20:34:54 07/02/06 Sun

I completely understand your feelings. I think its this - We miss the family thing. It's not him you want but someone that will be a family with you and your children and treat your children as wonderful as you do. I hope your hubby can stay clean, but the past results point to something else and you have enough reason to think that way. All the if's and when's should not be in your life because you my dear are worth so much more. You deserve to have confindence in your marriage. Trust, mutual love and respect. I struggle the same way you do, but him andI have put so much distance between us that I got to see things for what they really were and are. He is not what I would choose for myself today. Would you choose him to marry your daughter? Think about it that way. He is a long time addict and he will take a very long time to recover. Do you have that time? Can your heart take it again? You must make sure you look at your life when you were the most happiest with YOU. That shouls help in your decision. My husband always took Me out of Me and I could not do that anymore.
I hope you make a wise decision for your life. You deserve happiness, love, and respect. You deserve the world.
Heather

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings'	neverending	08:20:37 07/05/06 Wed
Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings' -- Cindi, 21:04:11 07/05/06 Wed Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings' -- Heather, 11:29:04 07/06/06 Thu