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Subject: Re: Need a reality check


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Heather
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Date Posted: 08:51:02 07/13/06 Thu
In reply to: Hulalea 's message, "Re: Need a reality check" on 22:45:06 07/12/06 Wed
 =) Thanks. I am having a very difficult time with this and its not that I want him, I would like him to be different, for him to be who he used to be, but not for me, for my son. But I know he isn't going to be unless he gets down on his knees and gives his life to God.
My old pastor from 10 years ago has been in town lately and my cousins church had a revival and he was the evangelist that gave the sermon for 4 nights. I took my little one down for prayer because his little head is so hurt and confused and I don't know what to do. I don't talk to him about him anymore and I don't mention his name to him or in front of him, but he still knows because he is almost 5 in two weeks. He started Kindergarten last week and he gives me a hard time in the morning and gives his teacher a hard time during the day. He doesn;t want to do his school work. I don't know for sure if this is from this situation or if I am looking in to that way. Either way he is not behaving the way I know he should be. He has such a strong independent mind at almost 5. Being this is my second boy, and my first one was nothing like this one, I am scared that he will get in trouble at a young age. I am keeping him in church every week and I let him choose the church he wants to attend and guess what, he chose the church that his dad went to rehab at. Maybe hoping his dad will show up? Or maybe because everyone knows his name there and he feels special? I'm not sure. My mind is working overtime right now and on the wrong things. My son is a huge concern to me right now, but letting go of what shoulda, coulda, woulda with his dad and me is what should not be on my mind.

So about the restraining order, I'm not sure really how to get it when he doesn't call that often and doesn't come over. I can use the past right? I can show that he has been in rehab and I can show his felony gun charge. They can see he has been in and out of jail, and I have 2 police reports where I had to call the police cause he one attacked me in front of my kids and pulled the phone out of the wall and two he was sitting in front of my house high and wouldn't leave and kept calling my house.
I have decided this with my court paperwork and hopefully the judge agrees. I will write it out to you later.
Thanks
HEather
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