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Subject: Re: For those of you that are an addict/were a user


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Heather
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Date Posted: 09:30:23 08/02/06 Wed
In reply to: Shari 's message, "Re: For those of you that are an addict/were a user" on 16:57:08 08/01/06 Tue
 Yes I got off a few times and my life was headed in this very great direction. Each time he comes around it changes. I finally realized this and told him that I will not deal with him. I told him the courts will have the final say so and he said so you are going to fuck me over. I said no you pretty much did that on your own. Still blaming me for his losses. I told him that he makes me sick, etc and he makes my son sick as well. But he still called. Yestereday he called and said did you call me this morning? There was a blocked number on my phone and I thought maybe you called.
What? I am not a part of your life anymore, leave me alone. He called me at work.
He makes my stomach so queazy. (sp?)
I have been getting anxiety really bad. My little boys seems to be doing better again and it's only because his dad is not around, cause I won't let him be around. My son needs to stay healthy and have a chance at living life better than I have showed him in the past, better than his dad has shown him. I'm only blaming myself for letting it happen so many times. Now I cannot. My son is so important to me and his health and him having a sane mind is my first priority. The school said he is getting better. He just cannot be around his dad but one of these days it will have to be dealt with. If his dad is indeed clean, the courts will allow him to see him and then I have to clean up the mess each time and then what? My son will either get used to seeing his dad and settle in to himself or he will just become angry and stay that way? I don't know. I am taking him to talk to someone this week. I am hoping she can help us through this.
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Re: For those of you that are an addict/were a userHulalea11:15:52 08/02/06 Wed

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