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Subject: For Heather

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Kim

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Date Posted: 20:28:19 05/02/06 Tue

Hi Heather,

WOW! Tonight I sat and read alot of your posts and alot of what I read I feel like I am reading my own life. From reading everything that you have wrote I commend you and I want you to know that you have given me some hope in my situation. Right now I feel lost with everything in my life except for the fact that I have gotten myself clean I suppose I owe my husband a big thank you for that. I always told him that if I was by myself I wouldn't do it anymore.(he never believed that) HA I proved him wrong! I have not touched it since the night he left! Although I will admit when I moved into my new apartment shortly after he left I wanted to do some but I didn't I chose to go to bed instead. Your husband and mine sound so similar its crazy I feel like he is soooo totally different now, he is very mean to me and it is hard for me to understand because having been heavily addicted to the same drugs I don't feel I was like that. I know I had little patience with my kids and I know I was different but never the way he is to me now. I know he's messed up in the head he has nothing of his own where he lives with his new chicky (I TOOK EVERYTHING WE OWNED TOGETHER) He lost his job, only sees the kids every other weekend we can't talk rationally AT ALL, every time we talk about anything it always reverts back to all this being my fault. ("If I hadn't of spread my legs he would still be here" is what I get) but I have been faithfull to him for 14 years--he has done all the cheating (I am still faithfull for now) All this is messed up to me. Really messed up!Who the hell meets someone one week and moves in with them a week and a half later? And then throw HER right in to our kids lives who does that? I might add he is taking me to court for custody! LOL.. right.... not likely he is not all there! I can't even remember the last time he even so much as ran a bath for his kids! BIG DUMB DUMB! He keeps on making himself look totally stupid! go to court next week. Anyway I hope as time goes on for me I can become as strong as you have Thank you for your inspiration! Slowly I am getting there!

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Subject	Author	Date
KIM	Heather	09:43:11 05/03/06 Wed
Re: Heather -- Kim, 20:55:47 05/03/06 Wed KIM -- Heather, 09:28:01 05/04/06 Thu