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Date Posted: 14:18:54 04/04/06 Tue
This morning on my way into work, my daughter got sick in her sleep. I mean throw up everywhere. It sucked so bad, It was 5 30 in the morning and raining, on a road w/only a couple pull offs, and she was puking so much and I'm trying to watch her and see where atall I can pull over; anyhow I pulled over and cleaned her up best I could, and then turned around and came home.
Today was the day for him to be gone. I gave him a week last tuesday. I told him when I got home from work I just wanted to get home and he was gone kinda thing.
...BaCK UP to 2 nights ago, he tells me he's made room enough in the garage for me to pull my car in 'since he doesn't know how long he'll be gone".. I just looked at him. Um, excuse me, this isn't a temporary thing is what I wanted to say, I don't know how much more clear I can make it...
...Back up to yesterday, he calls me at work, tells me about this rehab, but he doesn't know when they'll have a bed ready, and I told him in that phone convo that irregardless of this rehab day, my date for him to leave here is tomorrow....
So the events of today:
-His outburst about "why are you home? " then after I tell him about DD; "how am I supposed to get my stuff together" and all of this other crap about how can he 'get ready' to go now..
I tell him basically that he can figure it out and I'm home because she is sick and that's how it is.
-His asking me if he can just stay tonight since he doesn't have all of 'it' done, and the bed at rehab isn't available until tomorrow anyways.
I said "I'm sorry I told you to leave and by when. Why didn't you call the rehab guy up until the day prior?"
He gets very po'd and says "what don't you f'ing understand about the 'insanity' part of it?"
I said "what is it you don't' understand about how I'm not living with this 'insanity' part?"
--Him asking me for quarters for laundry at rehab.
I held my emotion on this one, I wanted to flip out. THe quarters he speaks of come from 2 containers. 1 was $$ I was saving for my kids, had 100 bucks and some quarters. 1 was $$ I was saving for b.s. fun money from yard sales and stuff I had. It had over 300 bucks and tons of quarters.
Both of the tins now only have quarters. Why you ask? Because he stole the bills out of them and shot them up his arm.
So anyway I did tell him that I was appalled that he would even ask. That's all I said about the quarters.
What do you think when you read that? Am I being too hard assed? I believe it is rough, but you know what, I didn't cause it.
There is more. Like last night asking about $$ for the rehab deductible if he can't get it waived. I said 'um sorry there is no money'. You think I'm pulling out of home equity or something? I honestly feel I'd be better off taking that $$ to vegas and gambling it.
I think he is seriously in some type of la la land, not realizing that 'get the f*** out' means 'get the f*** out'.
I have a kick out order on him; It is good for 2 years, and when I tried this reconicle w/him starting august 2005, I didn't cancel the divorce or that order or anything, for I am not that dumb.
He is gone now. He had to 'run some errands' at 11. It's 2:20 now. Give me a BREAK!! OMG!
So , my next thought is when he does come in, tell him he has a f'ing hour to get out, or I just call the cops and they'll tell him to leave?
Or do I suffer another night for the sake of not having any more drama w/police at my house, my children seeing that crap, etc.
thx for listening.
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