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Subject: Blame game


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neverending
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Date Posted: 07:24:22 04/25/06 Tue
In reply to: Shari 's message, "Re: Help" on 16:46:36 04/24/06 Mon

my husband is on his 3rd week in (in patient 28 day)rehab, and is still blaming. Not directly to me, but thru his Mom. He says things like "what about better or worse?" (referring to me 'abandoning him') , "you know all I ever wanted was afamily, to be a Dad, BUT, since I never had one...." , and on and on and on.

He said all of that to me last time, maybe that's why he's trying it on her now.

When he was still in the home, it was all about if I wasn't such a beotch, or how I act is not helping his recovery, etc etc. Then in the next breath he'd ask me for 60 bucks so he could get that last high and be 'done' with it.

It is such an insanity, this addiction; this drug.

I honestly hold no hope for this 3rd attempt at rehab.

Good luck to you

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Re: Response regarding detaching from your addict.Shari08:54:15 04/25/06 Tue


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