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Subject: re: angry at daughter


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Date Posted: 06:59:22 04/03/06 Mon
 Well my daughter had been doing so good that I thought maybe just maybe she was going to clean up and stay that way, that was until yesterday. She had visitation with her daughter yesterday. To caught some of you up she has a three yr old that my husband and I have custody of. We have had custody of her since Dec of 04 due to my daughters meth addiction. She has had a cycle since that time of cleaning up for two months and trying to get her daughter back and then going back to the meth for another two months. It is weird because I can almost nail it down to the day that she will start back up. This time was different though because she went a little over two months this time of being clean, but yesterday ended it I think.

She smokes and yesterday's visitation started out with her burning her daughter with a cigerette accidentally. I was sitting in the car and they went around the corner of a truck so I could not see them. When they came walking back my daughter was holding her child, whom was crying, with a cigerette in one hand and her child in the other. She brought her to the car and told me that the child had grabbed her cigerette but was okay she said it didn't burn her too bad. You think she would of had the sence to put her cig. out since she had just burned her daughter with it. I took a look at it and seen that there was ashes stuck in my granddaughters finger. I was so mad but since my gd was there I didn't say anything to my daughter. We took her to my house to clean her up and my daughter had enough nerve to go get another cig. I told her that she could not smoke around her anymore. This is the 4th time that she has burned that little girl. Two times before we got custody when she was just a baby.

After we got my gd cleaned up she wanted to go fishing so I took her and my daughter out to the lake to fish. My gd kept getting close to the edge of the bank so I told her that she would have to stay back or we were going to go home. My daughter made a statement that "she's okay it's not that deep if she falls in". I don't know if she was high or what but she had no concern for her daughter. I told her that we needed to go and she asked me to drop her off at her friends. When we got to her friends it was like meth haven. I swear that it was a meth house, it was filthy and it was located in a part of town that is called meth haven. Why if she wanted to get clean would she be going to a house like that? Also, for any past users, if you are trying to stay clean would you listen to a song that the words are "when you get stoned the sex is better, so let's get stoned", by the way I made her turn that song off, she was blasting it on the radio in the car with her daughter in there. I just don't get it, how in the world does she think she is fooling me by telling me that she is clean? The thing that makes me so mad about this is we have put out thousands of dollars protecting that little girl and our daughter has fought all the way. Taking us to court for visitation when I told her that she could not see her if she was high, calling her "free" lawyer and complaining about things which cost us money when our lawyer has to respond. The court has allowed her to have supervised visitation and this has went on for over a year now. We are wanting to adopt because we do not want to see our gd be dragged into this kind of life. We are on hold though because my daughter decided to make a childsupport payment after over a year just because she found out that we were concidering adoption and the time limit on her losing her rights due to not paying cs was almost up. If she wants this child so bad why doesn't she clean up and do what she needs to do? If she knows that she can't do it why in the world doesn't she do the right thing for the child and sign over rights so her daughter can have a secure home?

I'm sorry for rambeling on, I guess I just need to vent before I explode. I thank God that I have a wonderful family that understands and loves this child as much as I do otherwise we could not do this as it would be too much to handle. Thanks for listening I glad I have this site to come to so I can vent when need be.
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Re: re: angry at daughterMelinda08:14:45 04/03/06 Mon

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