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Subject: help


Author:
Valerie
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Date Posted: 10:20:52 03/07/06 Tue

My story is a long one, but I will post a condensed version here. In 2003 I became pregnant with my daughter, Samantha. My boyfriend was spooked, I guess, and became friends with a woman. At first I thought this was okay, she was nice to me and talked to me. Then, she was less friendly and less talkative. Two years later and lots of doubts and allegations by me, I found out that they spent all their time together with a needle and some meth. She turned crazy, claiming she loved him and threatening me. She went away, and my boyfriend quit for awhile. Now, we have a son, and I think that he has been doing it for a week or two now. I can see the signs. He goes down in our dirt hole of a basement for 3 hours or so at a time. I have gone down there to snoop, I admit it. I see test tubes he has taken from work, but nothing of drugs. He is edgy, snaps at the kids, and even at me. But also, sometimes, it is as if everything is great.
My question here is Do I confront him about what I think? or do I just wait it out and see if he comes to me like he has before? I am so confused at why he is doing this if he knows that I will leave him if it keeps going on!
Thank you for your advice in advance,
Valerie

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Replies:
Subject Author Date
Re: helpHeather10:43:35 03/07/06 Tue
Re: helpBeen There10:56:14 03/07/06 Tue
  • Re: help -- Valerie, 11:57:44 03/07/06 Tue
    • Re: help -- Heather, 15:28:34 03/07/06 Tue
Re: helpShari22:11:43 03/07/06 Tue
Re: helpLori11:42:02 03/08/06 Wed
  • Re: help -- Valerie, 12:38:29 03/08/06 Wed
    • Re: help -- Been There, 13:05:02 03/08/06 Wed
      • Re: help -- Lori, 13:38:04 03/10/06 Fri


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