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Subject: Re: Help me


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skowjams
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Date Posted: 07:44:47 08/17/04 Tue
In reply to: Amerie 's message, "Help me" on 21:22:21 08/16/04 Mon

I've just had my braces on for a week. I, like you, was absolutely terrified: of how I'd look, how it would feel to have extra stuff in my mouth, and of how many canker sores I was going to have. I'm pleased with how I look, I'm getting used to extra stuff in my mouth, and I haven't had any canker sores (just a little irritated.) I used to be so embarassed to go to the dentist and have them look in my mouth, but now I don't have to be embarassed any more. It was kind of hard to go for consultations because of being embarassed, but now I'm so glad I went. It is way worth it. Also, as far as the cost is concerned, some people have gone to dental schools for orthodontic treatment. If money is an issue, that might help. My ortho requires $500 and then the payments spread out over 2 years. My payment are $144/month. Good luck to you, and please keep us informed of how you're doing.


>I have read your story and somehow wanted to write and
>tell you my story. I am a 29 year old who is
>concidered attractive, well that is till I smile. I
>have for way to long neglected my teeth and have taken
>steps in the near past to do something about it due to
>a request from the man that I was dating at the time
>who felt it was not attractive. I mean here he is with
>a nice white smile and there I am a pretty girl with
>messed up teeth.
>They are discolored (from smokingand cofee), I have no
>cavities, and have been told that I need braces but
>the dentist told me that they have to extract a baby
>tooth which is still there and let the other tooth
>come in.. which I am scared as hell to have the tooth
>extracted and be missing a tooth that would be clearly
>noticable at least for awhile.
>I am without that boyfriend and most likely others
>because this world being so superficial not to mention
>my own vanity about my own teeth. They are not white,
>not straight, and not even the same size. Some are
>worn down and others are splitting. I need help.
>I know I should be going to a orthodontist and
>correcting the problem but I am so scared. I hate to
>be this way and wish that I would of corrected this
>years ago but now I am just not ready to hide away in
>my house for the next 2 years.
>I play the lotto every so often hoping to win to get
>veneers and wish that was possible but I dont have
>$5,000-$6,000 laying around. I wish that I could wake
>up tommorow and have perfect teeth. My self esteem is
>lowering and I am so self conscience about the teeth.
>Maybe some courage would help. A " you can do this" or
>maybe just a hope that even though it may be so hard
>at first I will wake up one day and smile teeth and
>all. Id like to get married one day and would like to
>be able to smile in the pictures. I know it is fixable
>I just need some strength.

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