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Subject: That's what dating is about

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Mark7

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Date Posted: 22:13:42 11/09/02 Sat
In reply to: KatherineJ 's message, "What to do when your man isn't doing it right" on 14:48:13 11/01/02 Fri

I agree with all your concerns. By the way, most men who live alone do clean their homes, and most men are obsessed by having reliable vehicles (I am one of them).

Probably your BF doesn't interview well, so you can help him by running scenarios, where you play the interviewer and he answers questions.

Neat organized appearance is also critical in the hiring process. I'm not saying he is lacking this, but you may want to "groom" him before you let him out to interviews.

Anyhow, bottom line is you cannot change anybody. You take them as they are and learn to live with their faults or you look elswhere.

While I agree that all these things can tear down an otherwise beautiful romance, I caution you with respect of hoping he will change later. If anything, people change later into something you don't like.

Anyhow, the best of luck. Just take it easy, take your time with dating, and learn as much as you can about him, and later you will be able to figure if you can live with him for a life or not. 4 months is not a lot, so just play, have fun, and relax.

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