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Subject: would someone please just be honest with me? Author: catherine [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 16:57:37 07/24/01 Tue why do posts die when i respond? (on DP) why do my threads get so little attention? am i boring or stupid? does most everyone not like me? am i being boycotted? sheesh. if folks want rid of me, just say the word, and i'll find a place to post where i feel welcome!! i know i can trust you all to be honest with me- what is the deal? notifiying me of my major malfunction is not going to hurt my feelings as much as being ignored does. hey thanks, cat [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re:Catherine I was meaning to talk to you about... Author: Rawlin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:12:14 07/24/01 Tue Hey, try not to be so sensitive. Not all posts get responses. Some are so diffcult to respond to that some of us lose brain cells just reading them. Remember that for every response or no response there are hundreds maybe even thousands of lurkers who do respond, in their own minds. They are too selfish or inhibited to respond directly to the board BUT you can rest assured they are out there reading, responding, chuckling to themselves for their creativity, perfect grammar and punctuation all in their minds.... Now tell me, what is worse to be ignored or to get your posts and follow ups deleted? All of my late night ones were deleted and when I awoke this morning I wondered if I had only dreamed I had responded. Paula confirmed the erasures so now I am feeling insecure myself. Was there one you wanted a particular response to? Cat, you have to stop asking difficult questions. You have to start with things we might be able to answer like.."what's the biggest penis you have ever seen?"..."what is an orgasm?" "How can I tell if I am faking my own orgasms?" "Where did the word dildo come from?" "How many dildoes have you burned out?" "How many orgasms can you get out of a "D" battery, a "C"....triple AAA's." "Why do some men's balls shrivel up when arounsed and some hang down to their knees?"...Are you asking the right kind of questions for the forum? Remember it is a sex forum so ask sex questions. I can assure you there are many of us who have not had sex in a long time who are willing to answer all your questions and respond to your posts. Bryan claims he's gone a year...I couldn't help but think..."only a year? That often? What are you complaining about?" It is not you.....really.