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Date Posted: 12:33:05 05/15/03 Thu
Author: SavCal
Subject: Bad News - support needed

Dh and I are separating. As many of you know, he had an affair back in September. I thought we had worked through that (we'd done counseling .. he hasn't *seen* her since, etc) but he is still unhappy and says he never can be in our relationship.
So, I"m seeing a lawyer tomorrow to start the official separation process.

I'm a mess. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I cry all the time. And I"m so alone. My family is all back in Oklahoma and I'm stuck in this god-forsaken desert alone.

And what this will do to the kids kills me.

I don't know what my long-term plans are. I might stay here and make it on my own .. I might move back to Oklahoma. But short-term, as soon as school is out .. Im headed back to OK with the kids for a "vacation."

Anyhoo .. just would love your thoughts and prayers right now. And any advice.

Hollie

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