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Date Posted: 16:55:17 01/27/04 Tue
Author: Jo
Subject: I'm glad your week went so well....m
In reply to: Heather S. 's message, "I made it through the week" on 20:00:28 01/24/04 Sat

Sam's 1st 2 days at daycare have gone wonderfully!

For the record, DH and I had made a decision for me to remain home when the kids were very young...which for the most part, I have. I have worked, but always around their schedules (delivering babies, daycare, etc).

For this job, I asked the Lord if it was OK, then to make it work out. And it has. Sam is in a licenced LDS daycare, he is thriving with the activities of children closer to his own age (he has Down syndrome, so it is a big deal) and for now, my job is temporary. Whenever I have had the urge to work, nothing has worked out...so when all of this did, it encouraged me to realize that the time was now right.

Not every family has the ability to have only one income and be able to raise a family. Yes, we've sacrificed a lot to raise our large family - I wouldn't trade it, but frankly, I am looking forward to a little more breathing room financially.

Do I feel guilty? Not one bit anymore - and for those who spout about the church saying mothers are to remain home, it isn't something I listen to. What the Lord has in store for me and mine isn't what might be in the works for another family...it isn't something that I look at any other family and set a judgement by.

Jo

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[> [> I'm glad it went so well. m -- Jenifer, 16:05:55 01/28/04 Wed

I hope it continues to go well for you and Sam.

I just wanted to say that I was NOT judging mothers who had to work. I was not "spouting" anything to make anyone feel guilty, but reiterating that the Church understands different families have different circumstances. I am sorry if my post came across differently.

I'm also well aware that many women never planned to work and that, as with all of life, plans change. I have nothing but admiration for any woman who is trying to juggle job and home, because I feel I fail miserably, at times, with just home.

Hope that comes across better than my last post.

Jenifer,
Mother to six earth angels and seven angels in Heaven.
Our newest angel left us Dec. 5, 2003.
We miss you Anna Marie!


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