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Date Posted: 06:38:14 04/18/03 Fri
Author: marshun(Martha)
Subject: Another quick update...I am not quite sure what it means.....more

I gave DH note stating that we still needed to talk. I told him I needed to know things such as: Was he quitting because I asked him to, or because of the damage it was doing to himself and his family???? Did HE feel he had a problem/addiction, or did he think he had this under control??? and Did he think he could "quit on his own" or did he feel he would need help to quit????

The answers to all of these questions is going to tell me whether he is serious about quitting or just doing it to appease me. I also told him that I wanted our marriage to work, BUT I would need to know these things. I asked him last night if he had thought about my questions and did he have any answers. He told me he was still thinking about them and could we talk about it this weekend. I told him okay, but that answer worries me.

Maybe it shouldn't, but I would think he should KNOW what he believes, maybe he is doing some soul searching to see if maybe I am right about things(he did go through a detox about 10 years ago and I am sure these same types of questions had some up)

I also went for an interview yesterday at the dealership. I could definately make enough money to support myself and the kids, however, I would never see them. I would either be working 7am-6 or 7PM or 6-5:30pm. I would have to get someone inseide the house to watch the kids because daycare centers are not open for those hours. I don't know if I like the idea. I REALLY want to get my teaching degree, but I don't know how to do that AND support us at the same time. I have got to figure that one out. Anyone with suggestions, who might have ideas...PLEASE let me know.

Robbin, If you read this, today is my last day at work...maybe we could get together sometime and talk. PLease e-mail me if you want.

Cyber Hugs,
Martha

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