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Date Posted: 17:06:12 01/13/07 Sat
Author: Richard
Author Host/IP: 157.detroit-13rh15-16rt.mi.dial-access.att.net / 12.75.44.157
Subject: Re: Need another VENT...sorry, but really passionate about this
In reply to: Rhonda 's message, "Need another VENT...sorry, but really passionate about this" on 01:48:20 01/13/07 Sat

I am not sure about this… The first group of people to blackball or ostracize me was my family except for my mom who overly protected me. Up until recently I have had no friends, none at all. I was consider a sissy in school because I was small, had long hair, scared of violence. I was constantly chased and beat up on. It was not ‘white’ people that did it, but just people. Even when the boy scouts sexually assault me, it was not ‘boy scouts” it was just people, not white, brown, or red… just people. I came out of all that with hating people. I did not learn to not discriminate against different groups or subgroups of people from Love. I learnt so from hating everyone equally. The only thing is though, not only was I victimized by some evil people… I was victimizing myself by carrying around all that hate around unresloved… all who I could attract around me was others who hated people also, whether be all people or groups or subgroups of people they hated. It was like I was carrying on the victimizing done by those evil people in my childhood and young adult… they were still victimizing me even though they are in reality but history. Mostly the only person that I cannot give up my anger and hate of is my ex-wife who so brutally tortured my children.

Crimes are crimes… there are no ‘black’ crimes, ‘white’ crimes, ‘red’ crimes, ‘brown’ crimes… there are only crimes of the human race. “It is not races that cause prejudice; but rather the other way around; it is prejudice that causes races.”

That is some horrible pain you went through Rhonda. But it has nothing to do with whites, Americans, Caucasians, Africans, Europeans, Baltic, etc… it only has to do with fear, stupid purposeful ignorance, and hate… There are not any groups, any sub groups, or any super groups that escapes having perpetrators amidst their group… none.

If you can do anything at all to alleviate some of your suffering then please do it. You so deserve not to let your fear and hate rule any part of your life… you are a most deserving person… most deserving!

RICHARD

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