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Date Posted: 11:26:16 06/26/06 Mon
Author: Mikki
Author Host/IP: 68-188-251-3.dhcp.bycy.mi.charter.com / 68.188.251.3
Subject: Re: Frustration
In reply to: Liz 's message, "Frustration" on 20:37:53 06/25/06 Sun

You and I are so different at times. I am more impulsive, and I dont' plan anything. I was going to run off to Ohio to be with the man I supposedly loved without thought to my husband and daughter. I'm really glad that something stopped me (my therapist from hell). I would have destroyed everything I had worked so hard for. I have a good career.....the best one I have ever had. I have responsibilities above and beyond my tech work (management things).

I can't plan anything......the only plans I make are when I have to work, and when I have my numerous doctors appointments. The rest flies in the wind......I can't control my impulses most of the time, and it isn't unusual for me to just jump in the car and take off for a day when I don't feel well. I promise Mike I will come back, just need time to myself.

The 50 mile difference in your houses can be a bitch sometimes. Dave and I had 330 miles difference, which made it impossible to see each other. That was the demise of our relationship. Phone calls can only satisfy so long.

It sounds as if he isn't in any hurry to get married. If you do.....are you going to be in your new house while he works and plays ball? Is that going to make it any better than what you have now? Just a thought....don't mean to offend. You have lots to think about.....

I truly hope it all works out for you. You have invested 4 years in this relationship, and the next step is engagement in my opinion. I do hope that you guys figure it out. Is halfway between your two houses where the older homes are? Your kids will be in college.....your job as a mom is kinda done really......it's time for Liz to do what she wants to do. Have a serious talk with this guy to see where he is at with all this. Hopefully, you guys are on the same page.....let us know how it is going.

Love,Mikki

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  • Re: Frustration -- Sandy, 12:34:53 06/26/06 Mon
  • Sandy and Mikki -- Liz, 14:17:25 06/26/06 Mon
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