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Date Posted: 11:25:01 04/19/05 Tue
Author: bobbi
Subject: Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom
In reply to: what?! 's message, "Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom" on 13:54:07 04/16/05 Sat

good, it's about time you spent time making your own life instead of trying to live through others and then blaming them for your unhappiness. you were a jealous recluse when i met you, via internet anyway. i have never met a more desperately sad person in all of my life, especially someone who causes their own sorrow. even your good friends on your forum tell you to stop victimizing yourself. how do you interpret that, by blaming others for your misery of course. but what they were trying to tell you is that you perpetuate your own misery by constantly have a lack of boundaries and self esteem. you fish for sympathy, compliments, and for attention constantly and no ammount of response you get is EVER enough.

and i highly doubt that this person who owns this forum appreciates your bringing this here anymore than i did or hell's forum where you did the same. good lord bob, when i talked to you, we were talking 24-7, emailing and im'ing and you STILL got upset and jealous. you were jealous of your best friends and your enemies alike. how sad is that? I am not responsible for how you feel about yourself. you determined your value and worth long before i met you. your self fullfilling prophecy of being abandoned is once again being actualized by someone who tried to care about you but you sabotaged their efforts. perhaps if you spent a little more time worrying about you and less worrying about what i am doing 24-7 you would be happier. did that ever occur to you that i DON'T like being followed, stalked from bb to bb after being invited on a friendly gesture by my part to try and help heal this friendship that you persisted in demolishing. having someone count how many emails i get, whom i respond to and how often and telling me that when I am online and playing a game, i should play with YOU just because YOU say so! telling me not to respond to others so much and post to you more even when at times i was posting to you constantly on a daily basis. what i do, whom i like, and my life in general is MY business. nothing you do to try and manipulate me, force me, or embarrass me about will change that.

now, i am no longer going to respond to you on ANY forum, in ANY emails, or any other method of communication. i see you continue to try and overwhelm me with 4 posts to my one because you sit in that chair looking for something to be angry about. the person you should really be angry with is you, because i have warned you for over 2 years now that you were pushing me away slowly and i backed off little by little and you still did not get it. so maybe now you will. have a nice life. i truly hope someday you are able to find yourself and make yourself happy.

p.s. i think the thing that hurts you the most is that i AM happy despite my shortcomings and situations in life. i have someone i love whom loves me and we are doing well. that gets to you on so many levels it is not even funny. with words you posted in public you praised that, but in private you shunned me for it. constant emails te3lling me how horrible i was, how i neglected you. how i made you feel depressed because i told someone that they were a great person once, and i had told you that so many times before. you were constantly telling me that i ginored you because of my husband. if calling you several times a day, emailing you several times a week and posting to you every other day on one forum or another is ignoring by your standards, then i would gladly point out again that your standards are too high and impossible to achieve. you CERTAINLY did not meet your own standards when it comes to communication and efforts made to keep our friendship healthy and ongoing.

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