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Subject: Re: lost

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Paganwolf

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Date Posted: 9/01/07 16:36
In reply to: newy 's message, "lost" on 9/01/07 13:08

As said earlier, its very difficult to offer any specific advice without knowing specifics.

You need to ask yourself your state of mind, were you drunk?, bad mood? stressed? you need to identify what caused this reaction, try to deal with it, I think you should write her a letter, explain your feelings, that you are sorry, above all else, you need to do this from the heart, not just for the reason that you want to reconcile this relationship.
Do you need external help? if so don't be ashamed to get it.

make our point and apology sincere and from the heart and whatever you do, don't pester, time is a great healer.

Above all else, learn from this experience

hope this helps

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newy
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Date Posted: 9/01/07 17:12

it is so hard to explain. i am seeking advice. i do suffer from extreamly painfull migraines. yes, at the time we had both been out drinking. yes we thought we would stay together forever. i dont deserve her forgivness and wouldnt expect it. she deserves better. i want to stop punishing myself. i dont want to end up on anti-depressants. i just cant believe i did wot i did. i havnt eaten since saturday night, i aint even left the house. i dont expect the help, i need to find myself. i have 11 stones infront of me to see if they can help. newy

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