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Subject: Re: Am I being unreasonable?

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sam spaniel

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Date Posted: 2/05/07 12:40
In reply to: Lilly from the Valley 's message, "Am I being unreasonable?" on 1/05/07 17:11

don't get me wrong lil hun.... but it seems he intimidated you when you were in the relationship with him.... you are no longer in that relationship and have not been for some time.... he should realise that and also know that he has no right to try to have a hold over you with such a thing as this issue.. you are only too right . you are entitled to some of the money and i see nothing wrong with you standing up for your rights.... you go girl!!

My ex had a hold over me with things like guilt trips for silly little things he had done for me in the past and made me feel as if i owed him something in return.
i soon let him know that he has no right to interfere in my life any more and i put him in his place... you gotta do it... i will light a candle for you tonight to send you some stringth.. stand up for yourself when you know it's right!!

take care lovely
sam xx

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[> Subject: Re: Am I being unreasonable?
Author: Pilgrim [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 2/05/07 14:24 What's yours is yours and you should not feel guilty for wanting it. Whether you need it or not is beside the point. It is yours and you should have it available to you to use in whatever fashion you choose. Your not being unreasonable at all. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]