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Subject: Re: hurt again

Author:
sam spaniel

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Date Posted: 22/01/07 22:13
In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "hurt again" on 22/01/07 9:52

sweetsong dear sweetsong... the more negetave things people say to you/about you, the more you will believe what they are saying, you are a strong person inside, reach deep in to yourself and find that strong you. tell your friend that you feel hurt about what she said to you and explain why.
you have your whole life ahead of you honey, start listening to your inner (strong) self and try to believe in you... we do.

lots of love
sam xxx

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[> Subject: Re: hurt again

Author:
zenwind
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Date Posted: 23/01/07 8:38

Sweetsong

You, as her friend and this new friend are separate events in your friends life ie) her opinion on him is not a comparison with you most likely. We all have a rainbow of colours inside, friends reflect different ones...all or just a few.

Also consider the interpretation that she may not have meant anything by it and would say the same about you to someone else. Perhaps she was enthusiastic about a new friend and by letting her/rejoicing in her sharing her happy moments (with a person, over her work/job/creativity, a partner, an occassion) you give her the gift of your friendship....she is sharing things with you. What is more wonderful than that than to feel anothers world through your ears and eyes....(to me we share the same world).

Of course it is possible she said these things to be cruel. If so, don't drink from the same pool twice. Do not do the same things and expect different results. Most likely that doesn't work. Put space between you and this friend.

But you have misinterpreted things that I have said and believe me my motivations towards you have only ever been ones of friendship. I am very sensitive to the feelings of others as I am a very sensitive person myself. And I think you are a fantastic funny girl but you got to start seeing that for yourself my friend.

zenwind

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