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] Date Posted: 23/01/07 8:38 In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "hurt again" on 22/01/07 9:52 Sweetsong You, as her friend and this new friend are separate events in your friends life ie) her opinion on him is not a comparison with you most likely. We all have a rainbow of colours inside, friends reflect different ones...all or just a few. Also consider the interpretation that she may not have meant anything by it and would say the same about you to someone else. Perhaps she was enthusiastic about a new friend and by letting her/rejoicing in her sharing her happy moments (with a person, over her work/job/creativity, a partner, an occassion) you give her the gift of your friendship....she is sharing things with you. What is more wonderful than that than to feel anothers world through your ears and eyes....(to me we share the same world). Of course it is possible she said these things to be cruel. If so, don't drink from the same pool twice. Do not do the same things and expect different results. Most likely that doesn't work. Put space between you and this friend. But you have misinterpreted things that I have said and believe me my motivations towards you have only ever been ones of friendship. I am very sensitive to the feelings of others as I am a very sensitive person myself. And I think you are a fantastic funny girl but you got to start seeing that for yourself my friend. zenwind [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: sweetsong [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 23/01/07 10:06 thank you all so much. and thankyou especially zenny. you are right. my friend told my sister i am the bubbliest person she knows last night. so i imagined that she thinks me unintersting. i think i have a problem with jealousy cuz i'm insecure. :( just so scared of losing my friends i cling to them like dear life. does this his happen to you guys? or did it used to? [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: gaiangrub [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 23/01/07 13:08 look at this way your friend raves on about friend in question because /you/ being an (obvious to all but you) optimum example of understanding and coolness yourself would appreciate the fact that friend in question is also worthy if it makes sense try it on --big hug---- [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |