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] Date Posted: 25/01/07 19:29 In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "Re: hurt again" on 25/01/07 14:05 I think honesty is the best option. If you lie, even the smallest and with the best intentions, it can and usually does come back to bite you or the person you lied to on the ass. Have you ever watched pop idol? With those people whose families tell them they can sing when they can't and they go on there and end up feeling broken and humilliated because of lies which had the best intentions to begin with. Well, honesty would have saved them the shame. And life is the same. And honesty doesn't have to be kind or cruel, like I said..honesty is honesty. It is the summation of observations. If you are going to get into the "who are you to decide to hurt people with your version of opinions?", then being hurt by an opinion is merely a point of experience. Someone else could take the exact same comment to be completely innocuous and then what happens? Is it an ambivalent truth that is torn between being kind or cruel? No, it just is. Truth is truth. That's all I am going to say on it. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |