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Subject: Re: Tell me if I have done the right thing

Author:
newy

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Date Posted: 11/02/07 19:17
In reply to: Newy 's message, "Tell me if I have done the right thing" on 11/02/07 18:59

Thanks Whitewolf.
The idea is to try and put closure to it all.
I feel, that if her love is true, she will find the tin, otherwise she will need a good metal detector to find it.
She needs to feel the love inside to be drawn. With all the leaves around you could not find it by looking.

Newy

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[> Subject: Re: Tell me if I have done the right thing

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zenwind
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Date Posted: 11/02/07 20:51

Newy

Let yourself grieve but give yourself the space and opportunities to move on, too.

I think this ritual can serve wonderfully to say goodbye, aid closure. To help you allow yourself grieve but give yourself the space and opportunities to move on, too.

I would be careful though to ensure your energy does not lie in waiting for her to find the tin. Do not waste any more time attaching to feelings that may never be fulfilled, it just causes more pain.

It seems to me the tin is filled with the energy of love, love to her...love to yourself - that energy is yours to cultivate the parts of your life that will help you heal.

Take care of yourself
zenwind

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