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Subject: Kelly's Love Language

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Deborah (helpful)

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Date Posted: 09:32:25 02/02/07 Fri

You need to find out Kelly's love language and go along those lines. I had such a light bulb moment after reading that book and it helped stop the disappointments I felt toward him. My love language is "Acts of Service" (without knowing this). In an attempt to show him love I cooked a big meal with all his favorite foods. He barely acknowledged it, so then I was mad that he was being rude-not a good cycle. Come to find out his love language is "Quality Time". He doesn't want me in the kitchen cooking. He wants me sitting on the couch with him. ding-ding-ding Once I got this figured out, it's all been good. Same thing with buying him presents. He's gives them a glance and moves on. I'd be mad because I'd spent so much time and energy into finding the perfect present. He could care less about presents. He just wants my time.
Anyway...I think back to all the wasted time and hurt feelings before reading The Five Love Languages. I told my husband mine so there wasn't any question. He knows all he has to do is fill my car up with gas and he's earning brownie points with me! I fell in love with him, because he used to tie my shoes for me!

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