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Subject: Oh well


Author:
Jono
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Date Posted: 13:14:10 02/13/07 Tue

I'm not worried about the "girlfriend" thing though. It was just an interesting topic of discussion that I thought I should share with you guys.

What's even more gay is that now that MySpace exists, if this does become a problem (it could, but right now it's really not), my intentions will always be known via MySpace. Which is totally gay. Sans-MySpace, I could just avoid the topic and never really have a label or not. Now, it'll be like "why didn't you change your status on MySpace to 'In a Relationship'" or gayness like that. Did I mention this is gay?

Anyway, I'm not worrying about shit now. As far as I am concerned, D2 is cool with hanging out, she's cool with not hanging out, she's cool with driving while I get hammered at a bar, she's cool with geting hammered at a bar with me while we take a cab, she's cool with being fair and always wanting to pay for half of things (or doing the trade-off/you buy this time, I got next method), she's cool with me not commiting about her being my girlfriend and she's cool with f'ing me. If issues develop, I'll hang myself because I am currently enjoying the coolness of the current situation.

D1 hasn't been told anything, but she knows she sort of messed up with respect to the list e-mail. Although we still e-mail and talk every once in a while, she's kind of placed me into this weird role as a person just to bounce things off of. For example, she went on a date last weekend and decided to tell me all about it for the purpose of wondering why she can never focus on the positives instead of the negatives and get past the perfect boyfriend she has constructed in her head (yup- she told me this. apparently, the guy was totally cute and charming, but he had jerky hand/upper body movements that left her distracted). Ridiculous, I know.

In any event, I'm thinking I chose correctly. Plus, D1 can be my concert buddy as she loves live shows and I usually don't have anyone to go with.

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