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Jono
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Date Posted: 09:25:01 03/01/07 Thu
After a very, very long day yesterday I have returned. Let's skip back to Tuesday night.
So I had, for a few months, been planning on going to a Gil Mantera's Party Dream (GMPD from now on) concert up in Cleveland Heights on this date. This bar is located like a block from Becky's place, FYI. When I bought the tickets, I bougt two. I was either going to extend an offer to D2 to go or if she didn't want to be out late on a school night, I was potentially going to see if Becky wanted to hang out and watch the show (shut up- we chat sometimes and she's making a legitimate effort to be my friend, which I am totally OK with. I enjoy talking/e-mailing her, I just don't want to date, marry or have sex with her anymore. A BJ for old time's sake would be welcomed, though).
Anyway, as the weeks progressed from the time I bought the 2 tickets to the time of the concert, B had made no mention of even knowing the concert existed (another of my fears- that she'd know of the concert, go hoping to see me there and then seeing me with D2 and creating an awkward situation where I feel horrible) and I assumed had she known about it, she would have alerted me with her knowledge of my GMPD love and my desire to see them live at all opportunities. As of last Friday, I hadn't mentioned having the tickets or even knowing of the concert, neither did she.
At that point, D2 had come around and said she'd be happy to come with me, so she was my date for the evening. Upon arrival, as I re-enter my car to get more coins for the meter, I drop my keys and lock them in my car. This is a problem. Pissed off, we walk to the bar, I pound a $3.75 PBR tallboy and then we leave the bar to call AAA while the opening act was performing (who I didn't care to see) to try and get a tow truck to the scene to get my keys out of my car. Upon our exit of the bar, we pass B and her friend Lisa, I immediately feel awkward, say "hey" and simply keep walking.
As I'm on the phone with AAA standing outside the bar, B and Lisa walk up, B says "what are you doing in my neck of the woods" to which I can only respond with raising a finger to indicate that she must "wait" while I finish this call with AAA. I even interrupted the AAA person to tell B that I was there for the concert and I was on the phone trying to get my keys out of my locked car. She patiently waits, surveys the D2 situation, the 3 of them (D2, B and Lisa) introduce themselves to one another and there's more standing and not talking, except for me to the AAA person. I once again raise the "wait one sec" finger to which B says "we're leaving" and storms off with Lisa away from the bar. As she's walking away I see her shoulders heaving which indicated that she's crying and I see Lisa rubbing her shoulders and consoling her.
Skip to D2 and I going back into the bar while we wait for the two truck. We sip some drinks, watch the opening band and then to my surprise back in walks B and Lisa right by us without a look or a word. They walk to the opposite side of the bar and I catch B staring a few times. 20 minutes pass, B starts to approach with her coat on, says "I never want to talk to you ever again" and then storms out. I get a text 20 minutes later saying "Go to hell."
She has since ignored any text, e-mail or phone call since that moment. Now, call me an idiot for trying, but I geniunely like this girl as a friend even with our history. I know that shit barely works, but it felt like it was. I was trying to contact her to just see what was up (even though I basically know she's crushed to see me with someone else b/c she's admittedly still in love with me) and find out if a friendship could continue. Call me crazy or a fag or whatever, but that's what I wanted.
Anyway, here's my theory: Women are crazy and the whole night was essentially planned.
1. B had suspicion that I might be dating again based on the MySpace comments on my wall from D2. She even messaged me a few times expressing her distaste for D2 even though she doesn't know who she is or what our relationship entails.
2. B knows I love GMPD and knows I love to see them live. She works for a paper that reports on every concert in the area and has contacts with every venue in order to report the concert dates and times of every venue. Thus, she must've known GMPD was in town and that I'd absolutely go. Even with all of this assumed knowledge, there was not one mention since the day the concert was set (late January) to the day of the concert.
3. B knows that I would know about the concert, and didn't say anything to her because I didn't want her to know so she wouldn't be there the same time I as was.
Based on those 3 things I think she secretly knew I was going to the concert, assumed I was bringing someone and then decided to show up to try and "catch" me in the act of dating another girl. This theory has actually been confirmed by my mom and sisters, so it has some steam right now.
Aaaaaaaaaanyway, the tow truck didn't come until after 1am. I didn't get home until about 2am and then, to top it all off, I had to be in at work by 6:45am yesterday morning, which meant getting up around 5am. So, three hours of sleep made yesterday suck ass.
Oh well, it's almost Friday and its less than 3 weeks until I'm making it rain at the OG. And I get the feeling that once you OG virgins see how much they beg you to touch them and how aggressively the grab your dick, you'll be making it rain much harder than this seasoned vet. Just let me pick my girl for the night (after test driving a few in the beginning, I usually settle for my favorite and get her to dance for like 5 songs and then only pay her like $60 for it, instead of the $100 that it should cost). Works every time.
Seacrest, Out. Details of the new job to come later today.
Also, apologize for any punctuation, grammar or spelling errors in this. I failed to reread it.
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