Create a New Forum Admin Login Member Login Contribute to Voyager Search VoyForums Help Desk VoyForums Exchange VoyForums Directory/Categories VoyForums Homepage VoyForums News FAQ - Frequently Asked Questions

[ Show ]

Support VoyForums

[ Shrink ]

VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

[ Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 1, 2, [3], 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 ]

Ah well, KP, it appears we need to have a conversation.... (inside)

[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> [> Well..... -- kennedypratt, 10:11:26 08/30/06 Wed [1]

Feathers, he told me he was divorced and had no children. He even had elaborate stories about the divorce. He spent every free moment with me for 5 weeks while he was here, slept in my my bed nearly every night. Even asked suspicious hypothetical quesions about if I though I'd like being a military wife, informed me that I could work at an AFB hospital where ever "we" went. Made me think what we had was so special. Broke my heart when he left, so bad I was sent home from work because I couldn't stop crying. So this past monday he calls me up and tells me the evil truth. He lied about everything. I was duped, he played me like a 50 cent fiddle.

[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> [> [> There's more -- kennedypratt, 10:14:58 08/30/06 Wed [1]

I just happened to have coffee yesterday with another air force boy. It turns out he is an instructor at the officer's school that the liar was at. Although he didn't know him, he did offer to get all his personal info for me. Like his home number and his wife's number too. He also said that his behavior was against military code and he could get in a lot of trouble for this. Good info huh? But I declinded and told him all that trouble wasn't going to unbreak my heart so please not to mention anything.

[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> [> Well, the problem is, KP... -- Feathers, 17:25:57 08/31/06 Thu [1]

If he did it to you and to his wife, who knows who else he'll do it to?? THAT's why the military has STANDARDS, and for damn sure ain't living up to them. It might hurt or cause embarrassment, but this guy is worse than a rapist and he ought to be brought to justice. I just heard a story recently about a local guy who called the Marines to report that one of their recruiters was fooling around with his wife. They prosecuted the guy, demoted him and tranferred him. He's probably recruiting reindeer in Keflavik, Iceland, now.

Please DO consider reporting him. I think it's Providential that you spoke with that instructor. A leopard doesn't change it's spots, so do the next girl in line a favor - and his wife and kid (who, fortunately is too young to know that his/her dad is a creep). This guy is not living up to the oath he took when he joined, and he's a grungy black mold spot on our otherwise fine military force. He needs to be dealt with. At the very least, consider that his paycheck comes out of yours and mine and everyone else's. Do you want to think about him ever time you see that FICA line item on your paystub, or every April 15th?

[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> [> [> Yeah KP, I'm with Feather's on this one. (Are you surprised?) Prosecute his sorry you know what. No wonam should have to go through what you did. You deserve so much better and so do any other women he might pull this crap on in the future. -- Texas_Cheryl, 00:01:22 09/03/06 Sun [1]


[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> poor bibby -- Chesneygirl73, 17:00:46 08/30/06 Wed [1]

So you see KP is innocent he reeled her in and lied because men do that you see!! But we all know she will be fine, "major"ly fine, I might add!! LOL

[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> [> Not ALL men, Ches... Just the jerks. KP, I feel really bad for you and what he did to you, but he's just one guy. There are LOTs of other great guys out there who WON'T lie to you. -- Feathers, 17:28:15 08/31/06 Thu [1]


[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> [> [> I'm going to correct myself... REAL MEN don't do that kind of stuff EVER. Only insecure, immature BOYS do. A *real man* honors commitments to family and doesn't lie, cheat or break hearts on purpose. KP, you'll find your "real man" out there, don't worry. Keep praying. -- Feathers, 12:03:46 09/01/06 Fri [1]


[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> [> [> LOL -- Chesneygirl73, 10:58:21 09/03/06 Sun [1]

I hoping I have found mine, he is amazing!

[ Edit | View ]