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Date Posted: 14:26:46 11/03/06 Fri
Author: Eldin Dzubur
Subject: Re: Friends with benefits
In reply to: Alan Remenapp 's message, "Friends with benefits" on 10:14:21 11/03/06 Fri

Although I wholeheartedly agree with you, I feel as if your viewpoint is sexist. The situation can go either way. Girls move on, girls take advantage of guys, and girls break guy's hearts too.
Just pointing that out. There is no middle ground between being a friend and being a couple, no matter what either individual claims.

>Can Friends With Benefits Work?
>
>I don't believe that friends with benefits is a good
>idea, it always turns out bad. If you do not like
>someone enough to be their boyfriend or girlfriend
>then you should just be friends with that person.
>Friends with benefits usually comes about when the guy
>wants to move on but is scared of losing the sexual
>part of their relationship. The girl still wants to be
>with the guy somehow so she tries it. This will only
>lead to more heartache for the woman and a guy who
>will just keep taking advantage of her until she steps
>up and says no. Before trying this arrangement with
>someone seriously think about why you are doing it and
>ponder if it is worth it. To me, the answer is always
>no.

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  • Re: Friends with benefits -- Komal Patel, 20:36:03 11/06/06 Mon
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