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Teenage Discipline Memories
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Subject: Re: Paddle with holes


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Travis to Aarron
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Date Posted: 07:35:25 10/13/11 Thu

Hi Aarron:

Great to hear from you. That's okay if you can't answer back right away, I find myslf with school, homework, other things I can't sometimes too!

My dad doesn't know I have discovered this forum, but I'm okay and I believe with the open mind he has that he would understand and especially my asking questions which is the purpose of the forum. As for what part of the USA I'm from, I would rather not say, and hope you will understand?

None of my buddies have sisters either, but we have girlfriends and believe it or not they get spankings at home, but don't do alot of details and comparison like me and my buddies do. It might interest you though, they get spanked bare butt by each of their mom and with a hairbrush.

Us guys have openingly discussed quite a few of spankings/paddlings with the girls, whether it happened at school or at home. For school, the girls usually know about as it's hard to keep a "secret" when any student gets a paddling from a teacher, coach or principal. Word spreads fast about a butt(s) getting "smoked"!

You metioned "watching" some fellow students in your classes get spanked/paddled of a few swats. etc.? What was it like for them to get spanked/paddled, did get it bent over and on seat of pants mostly "sit spot", do any yellping or play the Mr. Macho role? Were they embarrassed getting it in front of the class, cry, find it hard to sitdown at the desk afterwards, etc.? I bet you could have taken a paddling/spanking like this pretty good, huh?

How does one find the father/daughter/parenting sites your talking about discussing spanking? Are these TRUE HAPPENINGS? I hope not "weird" stuff, as if it was and my dad knew and discovered I "checked" those kind of sites out, I might find myslf not being able to sitdown for a week!

About my football playing, I play wide receiver and my buddies play offense too! We'd like to have an undefeated season, so we'll see.

I'm not into NFL games, unless a team is getting some ATTENTION and then I'll "check" them out on TV or in newspapers!

Our school football is taken SERIOUSLY!

That is COOL that you was a distant runner, track and cross crountry athlete. Did you and your teams have some winning seasons? Did you ever see in the locker room some red butts while undressing/dressing or came time to shower of recently paddled butts of team mates, and they become a topic of discussion? Did you set any records for your distant running or track & cross country? What years in HS did you do this? Win any awards?

It is common at our school to see on occasion a few red butts like this, and I and my buddies have been owners to display and "share" what happened to our recently paddled butt with them, etc.

You mentioned you was in college? Did you belong to a fraternity and do the paddle swats with fellow frat members? If so, how about sharing?

About the wooden paddle that my dad uses on me, it has 12 drilled holes in it, and length of the blade about 15" measures across so that both of my buttcheeks will become "crisom" red when my dad finishes with me and wideth is 4" wide, and being OTK like my dad does me, and even my buddies getting paddled this way by their dad's, my dad has enough room to swing really good and land that paddle across both my bare buttcheeks to paddle them REALLY GOOD! He has no problem swinging that paddle and making contact! BELIEVE ME!

OTK position like my dad has me, he really can get at the "sit spot" of my bare butt, and like I mentioned he usually spanks all over to make my butt red and sore, gives some licks to the top of my butt near the start of the crack area which is really tender to swats received and my dad can work his way down from that top/middle area down to my "sit spot" and he mixes the swats up to land all over, thus why I kick my legs and squirm my butt alot! My buddies's dad's spank/paddle them same way, and I mentioned I've been spanked by their dad(s) and mine has spank/paddled them when needed-resultings in alot of "SMOKING BUNS!"

So you tried the ole Clench buttcheeks routine too, huh and your uncle discovered you doing it, but didn't tell you to stop it but gave your buttcheeks extra, harder licks to see if you would and YOU DID? Those swats had to made your buttcheeks "dance" I bet? How many extra swats you figure you earned doing that?

You mentioned you was a skinny guy? Did you have kinda of a skinny/athletic small built butt your uncle paddled? I'm skinny myslf and my butt is kinda of small in size, not big cheeks, despite I have heighth, and weightlifting has made them tight; besides what God and Mother Nature have given me. That paddle my dad uses or those I've gotten at school really tan the cheeks up, like your commented and I will admit too, CRISOM RED BUTTCHEEKS for end results. (Pardon the pun there).

I get the "point" in your color description, like your butt got and mine does too. I like your descripted word "bulls eyes" what a drilled hole paddle will leave on a butt, whether it is bare or jean-covered; no matter what, those "cherry red rings" APPEAR! Sometimes can leave raised "spots" and those are what a guy really wanted to RUB feverishly to stop from hurting! I belive from my own paddling and watching buddies get their bare butt paddled, that from each swat the paddle leaves a raised "ring" and then another swat on top of the raised "ring" again really adds extra pain. Would you agree? It would be like hitting that raised "ring" and then swatting it to try to flatten it down from the raised position, thus making the buttcheeks field they are on all the more sore!

I'm wondering now, and I won't know until I expeirence it, if the stand up, put your hands on wall or closet frame while bent over some, paddling I want to "check out" and my buddies do too, if that will REALLY cause bare butt sticking out to HURT more then OTK paddling, and that is what I want to know.

Like I say I got a tight butt and getting paddled in the stand up position I could see about clenching my buttcheeks tighter and see if there will be less pain, or if my dad will notice and tell me to stop it, after all this paddling will be for real and for punishment! My dad won't be afraid to tell me to stop, but like I say when I get it OTK of dad he doesn't know if I'm clenching of what!

Hey, you mentioned some guys you know got paddlings, bend over with their butt stuck up into the air and placed their hands on their knees? Who came up with the idea to spank that way? I bet that position can cause to real "damage" to a bare or covered butt? Was this done some in your school by teachers when they paddled or your principal? Did coaches in your school paddle for discipline? Some have at our school, and my butt alone or with buddies' butts have been "SMOKED" getting paddled! Private and in front of the team! What a show at shower time I bet you can imagine for all to see, I bet you think? It was!

You talked about or asked if any I or buddies ever got a strap applied to our butts, bare or covered? Never have or I'm not sure I would like to. That would really hurt-BAD! One of the guys at school got his dad's belt used on him, he was made to lay on his bed, had a pillow placed underneath to raise his butt up more for a better target and so his dad could easily strap his "sit spot" and he told how his dad would bring the strap/belt right down on top of this buttcheeks, too!

CRISON RED?

His butt was dark color then that, and he didn't feel like sitdowning for a couple of days or tried to and hurt to much!

I believe you just got the paddle, no belt or do I need to check back in your original thread to see for sure?

I wouldn't want a belt used on me, laying down on bed or standing up for it to make contact with my bare butt, but I believe my dad will just stick to using the paddle on me and not a belt seeing how cooperative I try to be and he sees the after effects on my butt after paddling has done good to leave me with a sore, red butt with pain!

Oh, you wanted to know how old I am? I'm a HS Freshman, age 14!

Yup, I consider myslf LUCKY and my buddies do too, that we each have a caring dad who will take the time to paddle us to punishment us so we won't want to do "other serious things" that could get us into trouble. LIke I say, I'll take a paddling any olday, maybe my butt won't agree that I made the decision, but I guese "it" can and has gotten used to accept what I and "it" gets! Have a loving dad, and I will do anything to plese him, including to try to be a well-mannered/well behaved teenager, but it doesn't happen all of the time!

That paddle hangs in my room, I'm not ashamed for my buddies to see it, know they know that it has made contact with my bare butt, and they have witnessed it to see it happen before as I don't know if I mentioned or not but, I've gotten paddled in front of them with it by my dad and my dad has used it on ther butts to "SMOKE" their cheeks when they've done wrong and have their dad's permission to paddle them and I've gotten paddled by their dad's before for to, and all have been bare butt and not embarrassed to have happened!

That was a neat phrase: "RED BADGE OF COURAGE" you commented about my paddle hanging for all to see and talk about. That paddle sure leaves RED, and it take courage for me to cooperate when I HAVE to get my bare butt paddled! It would be worse if I didn't! I'd hate to think of what color ups past "CRISOM" which my bare butt would be painted that color if I didn't cooperate. What do think it would be for a color? Some buddies joke, "I have a fire engine red" butt!

So for the standing up paddling that I want my dad to give me to compare, I'll keep my mouth shut and let him do as he wants and sees he needs to do to paddle up my butt. It's to be punishment and would be CRAZY for me to give instructions. Knowing my dad, he'd say, "Travis, who is the father here and who owns the butt that needs paddling? I don't need instructions. I've done a pretty good job so far, young man. Will you agree?"

This would be where I would answer back to him, "Yes, sir!" and more then likely rub my bare butt, before it get's paddled and I don't want to make my dad anymore angry to give him ideas to make the paddling worse, which I'm sure you'll agree?

Thus, going back to my safety concern and my dad finding out that this idea for a stand up paddling was suggested online, and not from a close buddy I assciate with everday inperson at school or in the neighborhood!

About that lexan paddle, until I find out more about that myslf I'm not asking my dad about it and giving him ideas. I bet that "thing" could paddle up a bare butt worse then wood, but I'm NOT that curious yet to find out!

Aarron, I appreciate your sharing answers and comments with me. I hope we can continue to do so, and I will be glad to share "THE END RESULTS" what I experience to receiving a stand-up paddling like you got; and I have buddies who plan on suggestion MAYBE to see if their dad's might "SMOKE" their buns like this, too!

Gotta go..keep in touch and I will too. Nice Talking with you, dude!
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Date Posted: 05:25:23 10/11/11 Tue

Hi! I am a german mom daughters 15,17 and 19 and I use a wooden paddle with holes for punishment. Its the same paddle i got until leaving home at 19. I think a paddle with hoels is much worse than an ordinary paddle as the holes raise thin bumps which are hit flat by the next strokes so these painful blisters appear. I got up to 40 hard strokes and i could not sit for a day or two. To my daughters i give up to 35 hard strokes depending the fault. They get it bare from waist down bending over sofa.
As said a paddle with hoels is much worse than an oridnary one
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Date Posted: 05:24:20 10/11/11 Tue

>Hi Aarron:
>
>Good to hear from you again, and glad I'm not
>bothering you? I sure appreciate you answering my
>questions, and I will yours as well.

I should mention that it has taken me a couple days to get back because I'm not on line at home so over the weekend I can't get to the forums. I do it from work.



>
>Glad to hear you believe your uncle was "fair" in
>giving the paddlings to you, and somewhat to your sis,
>but I still believe he should have allowed her to be
>just bare bottom.

You're probably right. I think he considered the total nudity as part of the punishment. This may have been unfair to sis as she was a girl. I find myself thinking back more and more to when I would hear sis getting the paddle. Her crying and the "crack " of the paddle on her bare bottom. So I gather from what you write that you and your buddies talk about this quite a bit and that they "get it" as well. My question is do any of your buddies have sisters and if so do they also get the paddle and if so do your buddies hear or maybe even see their sisters paddlings?

>
>You mentioned you stood in your closet doorway frame
>more as a teen getting paddled then your sis. It's
>suppose to be like that, dude! At least my parents
>have talked about it this way and you read studies in
>the newspapers where it's normal and natural for us
>guys to get more paddlings then girls.

True, but girl's still get them. In fact there are some father - daughter parenting sites which discuss spanking of girls and believe it or not they get it quite alot. So the next time you are walking down the hallway at school and you see all the girls, even the seniors, you can ask yourself "I wonder if they get it. I'll bet some do.

>
>I think it's because we take more "risks" and think we
>won't get caught at it. I know I've done some stupid
>things growing up and never figured my butt would have
>to pay the price for my "risk taking", and I bet
>growing up you had your share of "taking risks" and I
>know I have and you probably did too, but there were
>times I didn't think it was wrong to do somethings
>until I was discovered, challenged why I did and was
>told it was wrong to and that I had to be punished to
>teach me a lesson to not do that again. Sometimes it
>took and a few times I was a "repeater" at it and got
>my butt smoked again for a message to learn from.

Yeah, there may have been some times like that. I really found the sessions facing inside the closet to be very uncomfortable so I tried my best to avoid them but then like you said, you know how teenage guys are. I suppose I tried things thinking I wouldn't get caught. I did and then "smoked" again. I like that "a smoked but" Yes I got "smoked" plenty.


>
>Did you growing up, young and as a teen, find yourself
>like this, maybe doing something and you got into
>trouble and maybe paddled and then you did it again
>later on and got a paddling worse? I have, and my
>butt got paddled longer for a lesson that I should
>have listened the first time!

Yeah, as I said above I'm sure I did.

>
>Yup, in warm weather months I usually just wear shorts
>and boxers underneath and no shirt, unless I have to
>if I'm going to place, etc. I get a really good
>tanning this way, of course my butt remains as white
>as snow unless I earn it a "tanning" and then I'm
>completely nude for awhile. I wear sandals, no socks,
>so that's my warm weather clothing. Was you into
>dressing like this growing up? If you was, then when
>you earned yourself a paddling you didn't have much to
>take off either!

Yeah, summer months usually means less clothing. For sis and I it didn't matter. Summer or winter if we were going to be paddled, it all came off. I wear sandels now in warm weather, in fact I'm wearing them now.


>
>I play baseball and some basketball during summertime
>because I play them during school months, and football
>too, so sometimes I dressed accordingly. Speaking of
>football, our team won last night and we are
>undefeated for the season.

I was an athelete as well. High school and college I was a distance runner. Cross country and track. Great job on your game friday night. What part of the country are you from? Do they take football seriously there? I really like college ball on saturdays. Don't pat to much attention to the NFL on sundays but watch some. Again, great job and keep winning, maybe you'll have a perfect season. I'm from Southern California and late Sunday night they review several of the local high school games.


>
>Sometimes during not so warm weather months I go
>shirtless around our house, so those are times you can
>say I've gotten paddled sooner in the nude, too!

Yeah,

>
>You mentioned seeing some paddles at school when you
>attened, but you never yourself got paddled? How'd you
>come to see those paddles? Witness some buddies of
>yours getting swats?

In my day,in what we called junior high (middle school now) even the teachers could paddle in class. I saw a few guys get a couple swats in class from teachers. They all had their own paddles. Many made in wood shop or Industrial Crafts shop. Most were wooden some holes some without. In our day only the guys got it never the girls. I guess In my day the girls got their bottoms tanned at home which in many times worse than school anyway.


>
>I've had to do that before when I got into some
>mischief at school while growing up, I and some
>buddies and I got school paddlings together by
>principals, teachers and a few coaches! Nothing
>serious now for the mischief, but we were told our
>behavior was not acceptable. We found that out again
>at home when each of our dad's paddled us again!

Yep, like I just said above.

>
>I like your idea to tell my dad that a "buddy" gets
>paddled standing in the doorway frame of their room
>closet and not bent over to get their butt paddled,
>and maybe I could see what effect if there would be
>any different for paddling?

Well, this should probably work. Like I said, it sounds like your dad is pretty easy to talk to.


>
>How's that, to ask or suggest to my dad? Like I say,
>and you said it too, I'm getting paddlings for
>punishment and not for fun and there suppose to hurt
>my butt to help remind me my behavior is not
>acceptable when I do something wrong, so really my dad
>is calling the shots how I should get paddled.

I can pretty much promise, that paddle will burn standing up just as much as it does across his lap. Actually having you over his lap seems kinda awkward if he is using a paddle unless it's a smaller "cheek to cheek" paddle. Kinda like the size of an old fashioned wooden hairbrush. A smaller paddle will be very effective while over a lap

>
>I talked to a few buddies of mine last night, about
>this standing up paddling and not bent over, and they
>are curious to what difference in "pain effect" of
>more or less it might have.

The only way to find out will be to experience it.


>
>Question for you, that was brought up, and you kind of
>answered it some in a previous thread you and I talked
>about. I asked you that while you got paddled standing
>up because your butt isn't bent over to be tight if
>the paddle swats might have caused your buttcheeks to
>"bounce" some and make the paddling hurt more and you
>mentioned that sometimes your cheeks "danced" you
>thought.

I think this is more the case with girl's due to the way they are built. So sis's cheeks probably danced with each swat of the paddle. I really can't say whether this has any effect on how much it hurts or not but I'm sure you can imagine that a girl's buns would "dance" under the hardwood more than a guy's would. It also depends on whether you're a bit on the chubby side or not. I was skinny. Sis was a bit on the chubby side (babyfat around the hips) so yeah I bet her buns really danced as uncle layed on the paddle.


>
>Would it have helped you better if you had thought to
>clench your butt cheeks tight together so there
>wouldn't be any "bounce" and maybe cause less pain, or
>didn't you think about doing this or didn't know it
>mattered and would help you feel maybe less from the
>paddle swats?

I think this is a natural reaction when having your buns smoked with the paddle. Yeah I did and he could tell. I think he just laid it on a little harder if he saw the cheeks clentch. But yeah, that should help ease the pain a bit.

>
>You agreed about if a person is bent over, like me how
>I get my butt paddled over my dad's lap that my butt
>would feel the paddle swats more and hurt by not being
>loose. For sure, for me, and probably because I have
>tight butt cheeks (it's probably resulted from my
>lifting weights for conditioning for school sports and
>I've been blessed by God and Mother Nature to have?)
>and I will feel the swats on my bare butt more when
>spanked.

You are probably better off due to all your conditioning. By the ways, what position do you play (football)?

>
>One of my buddies mentioned he was told that if a
>person bent over getting spanked, and it would work
>while standing up getting spanked I bet in your case,
>that if the person getting spanked clenched their butt
>cheeks tight together while getting all their spanking
>swats that a person's butt would "hurt less" for pain.

Yeah, I think this is correct.


>
>Neither of us have heard this until now, but did you
>ever and would you agree that to be the truth? Did you
>ever try that while getting paddled standing up, or
>think to, to clench your butt cheeks together to try
>to get less pain to your butt, and did your uncle tell
>you not to do this if he knew you were doing this?

Like I said above yes he would notice and the swats were harder. Clentching does help though but it will not go unnoticed, especially bare.

>
>I'm not trying to be funny or a wiseguy, really Aarron!

I know.
>
>My buddy mentioned that a buddy of his told him this,
>and the buddy said he did it sometimes and it worked
>for him, but last few times his dad "discovered" he
>was doing this and told him "to stop the clenching and
>keep his butt cheeks loose so his butt could feel the
>punishment pain it and he deserved for getting into
>trouble!"

Like I said, it won't go unnoticed.

>
>So, I'm wondering if a guy would do this, if it really
>works for getting less pain to your butt? I've been
>thinking about trying this "clenching" next time I get
>paddled, but like I mentioned I have a tight, firm
>butt as it is and don't know if it would help me or
>not. All I know is that my bare butt really gets sore
>and hurts, like it's suppose to, when I get paddled
>laying over my dad's lap, but I guess this might be
>another "experiment" to try and check out?

Since you are well conditioned I'm not sure how much difference it will make for you but I do know that your dad will notice and will either tell you to "loosen" up or he will lay the paddle on that much harder.
>
>If my dad agrees to paddling me standing up, I could
>try the clenching of my butt cheeks to see if there is
>really any truth in this theory or not, less pain,
>unless you have informantion to share that you did
>this getting paddled/spanked standing up?

Like I said, you can try it but it will be discovered and most likely dealt with accordingly. You may be better off to stay relaxed and just "take your medicine"

>
>You are right about being bent over my dad's lap is
>the "classic" spanking/paddling position to "safely"
>spank a bare butt. I guess the tailbone would be up
>higher so there would be less chance to accidentally
>hit it to cause hurt and damage to it.

The tail bone is pulled up if your head and feet are near the ground and your butt is sticking up higher than your head and feet. If you are lying flat then no. Over the lap is not a classic position for the paddle. In fact , as I said above it might even be quite awkward depending on the size of the paddle. Standing facing the wallwith hands on the wall or bent with hands on knees are classic paddling positions.

>
>Reason my dad likes this way, and I do too, is that my
>dad has a better way to "pin" me down and my butt is
>positioned great for spanking. My dad holds me close
>up to him with his left arm across my back, and my
>butt is centered and my legs free to allow me to
>"kick" some, which my dad allows if I don't do alot of
>squirming and try to get off his lap, but of course
>the paddling HURTS and I will do some squriming and
>kicking of legs which he says and I agree is "natural"
>for a guy to do, and it tells my dad that his paddling
>me is doing good, besides him watching my bare butt
>turn from white to red and sore for hurt!

This position is commonly known as the otk or over the knee position. You'll have to tell me how big the paddle is. Like I said, in order for him to effectively paddle you while over his lap the paddle must be about the size of a large wooden hairbrush. The wooden hairbrush is a very wwell known spanking impliment and there are a number of forums where girls have discussed having it throughly applied to their bare bottoms and there are tears a plenty along with very crimson "smoking" bare butts. So a paddle of this size with holes will do alot of damage as you have already told me it does.

>
>And to have the holes drilled in the paddle to "add"
>extra hurt is, like you say, "should be an extra
>insentive to keep from having my dad to apply it to my
>butt!"
>
>I'll agree to that!

Yep.

>
>I try to not get into trouble or mischief, and I try
>to remember how that ole paddle feels across my bare
>butt, swatting it until it's red and sore and "ON
>FIRE!", but I slip up sometimes, and you did I bet
>too, because you got several "stand up" spankings in
>that closet door frame, right?

Yep, we all slip up and then the ole paddle comes out again right!!

>
>Did you forget sometimes, how that ole paddle of your
>uncle's felt on your bare butt?

No, never really forgot and I had extra reinforcement because when I wasn't getting it maybe sis was and the "crack" along with her crying could certainly be heard. That would also be a strong reminder of how that could very well me "my" bare bottom. I did feel bad for sis, sometimes she really put up a fuss. That's why I guess I'm kinda curious if any of your buddies have sisters and if they get the paddle or strap and if so do they hear or possibly even see. I would also be curious depending on the answers to the above questions, how they feel when they hear / see sis getting smoked with the paddle or strap. Let me just say, be fortunate that you don't get the strap. On the bare that is like walking through the gates of hell if you get my drift.

>
>Speaking of paddles, where did your uncle keep that
>paddle at he used on you and your sis? My paddle my
>dad uses on me hangs on a nail beside of my bed in my
>bedroom. It served two purposes there: (1) it's
>suppose to remind me to be good and (2) it's easy and
>quick to get to when my dad needs to use it on me as
>most of my paddlings take place in my bedroom!

I have heard of that. So does it ever get discussed when your buddies come over or can you put it away before. maybe it hangs there as a "red badge of courage" of heard og jock types like yourself even bragging to their buddies on how much they can take. To answer your question , uncle kept it in his and aunts room. We knew at dinner "if one of us was going to get it" that he would soon be entering our room with paddle in hand. I saw him go into sis's room a few times. I knew she was nude and that I would soon be hearing the sound of the paddle and her as well.


>
>So, you say you heard about a Lexan Paddle and it's
>made of a high grade plastic and is not suppose to
>cause brusing like a wooden paddle does, but still
>gives the "BURN"? I wonder how bad a "BURN"? Worse
>then wood? It would have to be flexible some, wouldn't
>it so it wouldn't crack or break? Having drilled holes
>would really "BURN" too!

Lexans are just like wood, they come in any shape, size or thickness you want. Holes or no holes. They burn and supposedly don't bruise. I would say it depends on the one being paddled and how thick the paddle is. The lexan is probably comparable to the hardwood pain wise, no more, no less.

>
>Sounds kind of wicked! I hope my dad doesn't know or
>discover about a Lexan Paddle. I don't think I care to
>find out. I'll stick with the "wood finish" my dad
>tans to with!

Like I said, probably no worse than what you are getting right now.

>
>My dad does a "GREAT JOB" paddling me and he doesn't
>bruse my bare butt doing it, and maybe he's "checked"
>into how not to? Did any of the paddlings your uncle
>gave you caused your butt to be brused, other then the
>"normal" fire engine read after a paddling? I get that
>color and crisom red sometimes and not so red...maybe
>more a dark pink...get the picture?

Mine was crimson, both cheeks when finished. I also from time to time would sport the classic paddle "bulls eye" marks on each cheek. Sis probably did as well. By the ways, if you don't know crimson is the same color as the U of oklahoma or Alabama football uniforms. You get the point.


>
>Standing up paddling needs to have the swats more to
>the butt on the "sit spot"? Wonder if I will have to
>tell me dad this, for safety purposes? That is, if I
>can get him to try paddling me in this position!
>Can't have swats to the middle of the butt? Check!

If you start to sound to knowledgeable about all this he might start to ask a few questions. Your safety concern is a valid one though. Does your dad know you post on here?


>
>Are you laughing, about all of this? I know, I'm a
>crazy teenager guy, wanting to try something "new"
>right?

Nope, not laughing.


>
>Hey, that was nice of you to say all the neat stuff
>about agreeing that my dad doesn't like paddling me,
>even though it's his fatherly duty to help keep me in
>line with love by paddling me. I know he doesn't like
>to paddle me, but I'm glad he does. It's better
>punishment then getting grounded like some kids at
>school get, and this punishment WORKS for me and my
>dad!

This is actually a very mature attitude Travis. No he dosen't but yes he would rather do this now than have you end up in serious trouble later under circumatances which he can do nothing about.


>
>It sounds corny, probably, but my dad has said the old
>line, "son, I hate doing this, paddling you! It hurts
>me too, sometimes more to have to do it, but I do it
>with love and I care about you and if your doing
>something your not suppose to be doing I would rather
>you feel pain on your butt, discomfort now, and not
>have to feel more pain in some other way or situation
>that you or I couldn't get you out of!"

Exactly, as I said above. Teach you now and prevent serious trouble in the future.

>
>I know it's hard for him, Aarron! I love my dad, and
>for him wanting to do this for me. I have buddies
>who's dad's do and feel the same way in paddling them
>and caring about them this way, too!


You and your buddies are very very lucky and like I said, very mature of you to realize this. It might be hard when you are staring at the carpet but yes you are lucky. Consider yourself blesed.

>
>I guess America would be better off, if there were
>more BOTTOMS UP getting punished this way?

Way better off.

>
>Thanks for you advice, that "if a bad idea pops into
>my head, that I should remember how the feel of the
>hardwood was, popping on my bare butt, and that will
>convince me it might not be a good idea after all!"

That's the whole point. He figures that if he "smokes" your bare butt good an proper this time that maybe it will be the last. Unfortunately, dosen't always pan out that way. You might be getting close by now. How old are you, 15,16,17?



>
>Your a great friend to tell me this, thanks Aarron.
>Nice talking with you, and I look forward to hear from
>you when you have time.

Happy to do it.

>
>Thanks!
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Hi Aarron:

Good to hear from you again, and glad I'm not bothering you? I sure appreciate you answering my questions, and I will yours as well.

Glad to hear you believe your uncle was "fair" in giving the paddlings to you, and somewhat to your sis, but I still believe he should have allowed her to be just bare bottom.

You mentioned you stood in your closet doorway frame more as a teen getting paddled then your sis. It's suppose to be like that, dude! At least my parents have talked about it this way and you read studies in the newspapers where it's normal and natural for us guys to get more paddlings then girls.

I think it's because we take more "risks" and think we won't get caught at it. I know I've done some stupid things growing up and never figured my butt would have to pay the price for my "risk taking", and I bet growing up you had your share of "taking risks" and I know I have and you probably did too, but there were times I didn't think it was wrong to do somethings until I was discovered, challenged why I did and was told it was wrong to and that I had to be punished to teach me a lesson to not do that again. Sometimes it took and a few times I was a "repeater" at it and got my butt smoked again for a message to learn from.

Did you growing up, young and as a teen, find yourself like this, maybe doing something and you got into trouble and maybe paddled and then you did it again later on and got a paddling worse? I have, and my butt got paddled longer for a lesson that I should have listened the first time!

Yup, in warm weather months I usually just wear shorts and boxers underneath and no shirt, unless I have to if I'm going to place, etc. I get a really good tanning this way, of course my butt remains as white as snow unless I earn it a "tanning" and then I'm completely nude for awhile. I wear sandals, no socks, so that's my warm weather clothing. Was you into dressing like this growing up? If you was, then when you earned yourself a paddling you didn't have much to take off either!

I play baseball and some basketball during summertime because I play them during school months, and football too, so sometimes I dressed accordingly. Speaking of football, our team won last night and we are undefeated for the season.

Sometimes during not so warm weather months I go shirtless around our house, so those are times you can say I've gotten paddled sooner in the nude, too!

You mentioned seeing some paddles at school when you attened, but you never yourself got paddled? How'd you come to see those paddles? Witness some buddies of yours getting swats?

I've had to do that before when I got into some mischief at school while growing up, I and some buddies and I got school paddlings together by principals, teachers and a few coaches! Nothing serious now for the mischief, but we were told our behavior was not acceptable. We found that out again at home when each of our dad's paddled us again!

I like your idea to tell my dad that a "buddy" gets paddled standing in the doorway frame of their room closet and not bent over to get their butt paddled, and maybe I could see what effect if there would be any different for paddling?

How's that, to ask or suggest to my dad? Like I say, and you said it too, I'm getting paddlings for punishment and not for fun and there suppose to hurt my butt to help remind me my behavior is not acceptable when I do something wrong, so really my dad is calling the shots how I should get paddled.

I talked to a few buddies of mine last night, about this standing up paddling and not bent over, and they are curious to what difference in "pain effect" of more or less it might have.

Question for you, that was brought up, and you kind of answered it some in a previous thread you and I talked about. I asked you that while you got paddled standing up because your butt isn't bent over to be tight if the paddle swats might have caused your buttcheeks to "bounce" some and make the paddling hurt more and you mentioned that sometimes your cheeks "danced" you thought.

Would it have helped you better if you had thought to clench your butt cheeks tight together so there wouldn't be any "bounce" and maybe cause less pain, or didn't you think about doing this or didn't know it mattered and would help you feel maybe less from the paddle swats?

You agreed about if a person is bent over, like me how I get my butt paddled over my dad's lap that my butt would feel the paddle swats more and hurt by not being loose. For sure, for me, and probably because I have tight butt cheeks (it's probably resulted from my lifting weights for conditioning for school sports and I've been blessed by God and Mother Nature to have?) and I will feel the swats on my bare butt more when spanked.

One of my buddies mentioned he was told that if a person bent over getting spanked, and it would work while standing up getting spanked I bet in your case, that if the person getting spanked clenched their butt cheeks tight together while getting all their spanking swats that a person's butt would "hurt less" for pain.

Neither of us have heard this until now, but did you ever and would you agree that to be the truth? Did you ever try that while getting paddled standing up, or think to, to clench your butt cheeks together to try to get less pain to your butt, and did your uncle tell you not to do this if he knew you were doing this?

I'm not trying to be funny or a wiseguy, really Aarron!

My buddy mentioned that a buddy of his told him this, and the buddy said he did it sometimes and it worked for him, but last few times his dad "discovered" he was doing this and told him "to stop the clenching and keep his butt cheeks loose so his butt could feel the punishment pain it and he deserved for getting into trouble!"

So, I'm wondering if a guy would do this, if it really works for getting less pain to your butt? I've been thinking about trying this "clenching" next time I get paddled, but like I mentioned I have a tight, firm butt as it is and don't know if it would help me or not. All I know is that my bare butt really gets sore and hurts, like it's suppose to, when I get paddled laying over my dad's lap, but I guess this might be another "experiment" to try and check out?

If my dad agrees to paddling me standing up, I could try the clenching of my butt cheeks to see if there is really any truth in this theory or not, less pain, unless you have informantion to share that you did this getting paddled/spanked standing up?

You are right about being bent over my dad's lap is the "classic" spanking/paddling position to "safely" spank a bare butt. I guess the tailbone would be up higher so there would be less chance to accidentally hit it to cause hurt and damage to it.

Reason my dad likes this way, and I do too, is that my dad has a better way to "pin" me down and my butt is positioned great for spanking. My dad holds me close up to him with his left arm across my back, and my butt is centered and my legs free to allow me to "kick" some, which my dad allows if I don't do alot of squirming and try to get off his lap, but of course the paddling HURTS and I will do some squriming and kicking of legs which he says and I agree is "natural" for a guy to do, and it tells my dad that his paddling me is doing good, besides him watching my bare butt turn from white to red and sore for hurt!

And to have the holes drilled in the paddle to "add" extra hurt is, like you say, "should be an extra insentive to keep from having my dad to apply it to my butt!"

I'll agree to that!

I try to not get into trouble or mischief, and I try to remember how that ole paddle feels across my bare butt, swatting it until it's red and sore and "ON FIRE!", but I slip up sometimes, and you did I bet too, because you got several "stand up" spankings in that closet door frame, right?

Did you forget sometimes, how that ole paddle of your uncle's felt on your bare butt?

Speaking of paddles, where did your uncle keep that paddle at he used on you and your sis? My paddle my dad uses on me hangs on a nail beside of my bed in my bedroom. It served two purposes there: (1) it's suppose to remind me to be good and (2) it's easy and quick to get to when my dad needs to use it on me as most of my paddlings take place in my bedroom!

So, you say you heard about a Lexan Paddle and it's made of a high grade plastic and is not suppose to cause brusing like a wooden paddle does, but still gives the "BURN"? I wonder how bad a "BURN"? Worse then wood? It would have to be flexible some, wouldn't it so it wouldn't crack or break? Having drilled holes would really "BURN" too!

Sounds kind of wicked! I hope my dad doesn't know or discover about a Lexan Paddle. I don't think I care to find out. I'll stick with the "wood finish" my dad tans to with!

My dad does a "GREAT JOB" paddling me and he doesn't bruse my bare butt doing it, and maybe he's "checked" into how not to? Did any of the paddlings your uncle gave you caused your butt to be brused, other then the "normal" fire engine read after a paddling? I get that color and crisom red sometimes and not so red...maybe more a dark pink...get the picture?

Standing up paddling needs to have the swats more to the butt on the "sit spot"? Wonder if I will have to tell me dad this, for safety purposes? That is, if I can get him to try paddling me in this position! Can't have swats to the middle of the butt? Check!

Are you laughing, about all of this? I know, I'm a crazy teenager guy, wanting to try something "new" right?

Hey, that was nice of you to say all the neat stuff about agreeing that my dad doesn't like paddling me, even though it's his fatherly duty to help keep me in line with love by paddling me. I know he doesn't like to paddle me, but I'm glad he does. It's better punishment then getting grounded like some kids at school get, and this punishment WORKS for me and my dad!

It sounds corny, probably, but my dad has said the old line, "son, I hate doing this, paddling you! It hurts me too, sometimes more to have to do it, but I do it with love and I care about you and if your doing something your not suppose to be doing I would rather you feel pain on your butt, discomfort now, and not have to feel more pain in some other way or situation that you or I couldn't get you out of!"

I know it's hard for him, Aarron! I love my dad, and for him wanting to do this for me. I have buddies who's dad's do and feel the same way in paddling them and caring about them this way, too!

I guess America would be better off, if there were more BOTTOMS UP getting punished this way?

Thanks for you advice, that "if a bad idea pops into my head, that I should remember how the feel of the hardwood was, popping on my bare butt, and that will convince me it might not be a good idea after all!"

Your a great friend to tell me this, thanks Aarron. Nice talking with you, and I look forward to hear from you when you have time.

Thanks!
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Date Posted: 05:19:36 10/11/11 Tue

Hey Travis, somehow my message & your reply got buried in archives & there it has no way to reply, so here's another start over.

First the CNN special last night was an hour & thought it was good. Sad in away to hear tales of bullying. Found out there will be a continuing segment each evening all this week. If folks allow tv & doesn't interfere with studies or homework, you might want to check it out on AC-360 program. Sounds like they might do the hour replay next weekend too.

So this was your first time to get swats at school for a smarting-off mouth?? Guess the previous ones then in K-8 were other violations. Always have a male teacher/princial that did the swats or a few females too?

We didn't have any firm phrase for a visit to the office, but some guys would say growing up I recall it was "The Trip" or "The Walk". The time mom said I threatened her & dad took me to our basement for a strap whipping, he said something like--we're taking a trip to the basement. It was to intimidate me a little I think to freak me some that it was going to be a WORST tanning. When your dad has shared stories of his boyhood spankings, he say he got another at home if paddled at school?? In your opinion, is it better at your age to bend over like done at school or over the lap as your dad does your paddlings?

When we 3 reported after school as instructed, the paddle was already out & lying there for 'action' when we got there & he picked it up toward the tail end of our chew out. I was #2 of the 3 of us to assume position. I too thought---this can't be happening!! In another weird way, I wanted it to happen I guess cause other guys I knew had gotten swats at school & I wondered what it felt like--I sure found out. All 3 of us had a big red patch dead center & lower butt cheeks. No welts but small ringlets where holes in paddle bit us. The damage check was just a guys thing routine. I did a subtle rub taking out my billfold & comb to bend over & for sure after.

When you & dad talked after dinner, you said it was in the bedroom--your parents' room or your room?

The prickly heat feeling made briefs stick to skin & jeans just rubbed in general the surface. It was more reaching back to pull jeans & shorts away from skin than a rub. I was some uncomfortable sitting at the table but didn't squirm or wince or give any indications cause I didn't want any questions ask as to why!! No never did tell folks.

Gotta go for now Travis. Hope your week stays cool dude
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