[ Edit | View ]
Date Posted: 05:24:20 10/11/11 Tue
>Good to hear from you again, and glad I'm not
>bothering you? I sure appreciate you answering my
>questions, and I will yours as well.
I should mention that it has taken me a couple days to get back because I'm not on line at home so over the weekend I can't get to the forums. I do it from work.
>Glad to hear you believe your uncle was "fair" in
>giving the paddlings to you, and somewhat to your sis,
>but I still believe he should have allowed her to be
>just bare bottom.
You're probably right. I think he considered the total nudity as part of the punishment. This may have been unfair to sis as she was a girl. I find myself thinking back more and more to when I would hear sis getting the paddle. Her crying and the "crack " of the paddle on her bare bottom. So I gather from what you write that you and your buddies talk about this quite a bit and that they "get it" as well. My question is do any of your buddies have sisters and if so do they also get the paddle and if so do your buddies hear or maybe even see their sisters paddlings?
>You mentioned you stood in your closet doorway frame
>more as a teen getting paddled then your sis. It's
>suppose to be like that, dude! At least my parents
>have talked about it this way and you read studies in
>the newspapers where it's normal and natural for us
>guys to get more paddlings then girls.
True, but girl's still get them. In fact there are some father - daughter parenting sites which discuss spanking of girls and believe it or not they get it quite alot. So the next time you are walking down the hallway at school and you see all the girls, even the seniors, you can ask yourself "I wonder if they get it. I'll bet some do.
>I think it's because we take more "risks" and think we
>won't get caught at it. I know I've done some stupid
>things growing up and never figured my butt would have
>to pay the price for my "risk taking", and I bet
>growing up you had your share of "taking risks" and I
>know I have and you probably did too, but there were
>times I didn't think it was wrong to do somethings
>until I was discovered, challenged why I did and was
>told it was wrong to and that I had to be punished to
>teach me a lesson to not do that again. Sometimes it
>took and a few times I was a "repeater" at it and got
>my butt smoked again for a message to learn from.
Yeah, there may have been some times like that. I really found the sessions facing inside the closet to be very uncomfortable so I tried my best to avoid them but then like you said, you know how teenage guys are. I suppose I tried things thinking I wouldn't get caught. I did and then "smoked" again. I like that "a smoked but" Yes I got "smoked" plenty.
>Did you growing up, young and as a teen, find yourself
>like this, maybe doing something and you got into
>trouble and maybe paddled and then you did it again
>later on and got a paddling worse? I have, and my
>butt got paddled longer for a lesson that I should
>have listened the first time!
Yeah, as I said above I'm sure I did.
>Yup, in warm weather months I usually just wear shorts
>and boxers underneath and no shirt, unless I have to
>if I'm going to place, etc. I get a really good
>tanning this way, of course my butt remains as white
>as snow unless I earn it a "tanning" and then I'm
>completely nude for awhile. I wear sandals, no socks,
>so that's my warm weather clothing. Was you into
>dressing like this growing up? If you was, then when
>you earned yourself a paddling you didn't have much to
>take off either!
Yeah, summer months usually means less clothing. For sis and I it didn't matter. Summer or winter if we were going to be paddled, it all came off. I wear sandels now in warm weather, in fact I'm wearing them now.
>I play baseball and some basketball during summertime
>because I play them during school months, and football
>too, so sometimes I dressed accordingly. Speaking of
>football, our team won last night and we are
>undefeated for the season.
I was an athelete as well. High school and college I was a distance runner. Cross country and track. Great job on your game friday night. What part of the country are you from? Do they take football seriously there? I really like college ball on saturdays. Don't pat to much attention to the NFL on sundays but watch some. Again, great job and keep winning, maybe you'll have a perfect season. I'm from Southern California and late Sunday night they review several of the local high school games.
>Sometimes during not so warm weather months I go
>shirtless around our house, so those are times you can
>say I've gotten paddled sooner in the nude, too!
>You mentioned seeing some paddles at school when you
>attened, but you never yourself got paddled? How'd you
>come to see those paddles? Witness some buddies of
>yours getting swats?
In my day,in what we called junior high (middle school now) even the teachers could paddle in class. I saw a few guys get a couple swats in class from teachers. They all had their own paddles. Many made in wood shop or Industrial Crafts shop. Most were wooden some holes some without. In our day only the guys got it never the girls. I guess In my day the girls got their bottoms tanned at home which in many times worse than school anyway.
>I've had to do that before when I got into some
>mischief at school while growing up, I and some
>buddies and I got school paddlings together by
>principals, teachers and a few coaches! Nothing
>serious now for the mischief, but we were told our
>behavior was not acceptable. We found that out again
>at home when each of our dad's paddled us again!
Yep, like I just said above.
>I like your idea to tell my dad that a "buddy" gets
>paddled standing in the doorway frame of their room
>closet and not bent over to get their butt paddled,
>and maybe I could see what effect if there would be
>any different for paddling?
Well, this should probably work. Like I said, it sounds like your dad is pretty easy to talk to.
>How's that, to ask or suggest to my dad? Like I say,
>and you said it too, I'm getting paddlings for
>punishment and not for fun and there suppose to hurt
>my butt to help remind me my behavior is not
>acceptable when I do something wrong, so really my dad
>is calling the shots how I should get paddled.
I can pretty much promise, that paddle will burn standing up just as much as it does across his lap. Actually having you over his lap seems kinda awkward if he is using a paddle unless it's a smaller "cheek to cheek" paddle. Kinda like the size of an old fashioned wooden hairbrush. A smaller paddle will be very effective while over a lap
>I talked to a few buddies of mine last night, about
>this standing up paddling and not bent over, and they
>are curious to what difference in "pain effect" of
>more or less it might have.
The only way to find out will be to experience it.
>Question for you, that was brought up, and you kind of
>answered it some in a previous thread you and I talked
>about. I asked you that while you got paddled standing
>up because your butt isn't bent over to be tight if
>the paddle swats might have caused your buttcheeks to
>"bounce" some and make the paddling hurt more and you
>mentioned that sometimes your cheeks "danced" you
I think this is more the case with girl's due to the way they are built. So sis's cheeks probably danced with each swat of the paddle. I really can't say whether this has any effect on how much it hurts or not but I'm sure you can imagine that a girl's buns would "dance" under the hardwood more than a guy's would. It also depends on whether you're a bit on the chubby side or not. I was skinny. Sis was a bit on the chubby side (babyfat around the hips) so yeah I bet her buns really danced as uncle layed on the paddle.
>Would it have helped you better if you had thought to
>clench your butt cheeks tight together so there
>wouldn't be any "bounce" and maybe cause less pain, or
>didn't you think about doing this or didn't know it
>mattered and would help you feel maybe less from the
I think this is a natural reaction when having your buns smoked with the paddle. Yeah I did and he could tell. I think he just laid it on a little harder if he saw the cheeks clentch. But yeah, that should help ease the pain a bit.
>You agreed about if a person is bent over, like me how
>I get my butt paddled over my dad's lap that my butt
>would feel the paddle swats more and hurt by not being
>loose. For sure, for me, and probably because I have
>tight butt cheeks (it's probably resulted from my
>lifting weights for conditioning for school sports and
>I've been blessed by God and Mother Nature to have?)
>and I will feel the swats on my bare butt more when
You are probably better off due to all your conditioning. By the ways, what position do you play (football)?
>One of my buddies mentioned he was told that if a
>person bent over getting spanked, and it would work
>while standing up getting spanked I bet in your case,
>that if the person getting spanked clenched their butt
>cheeks tight together while getting all their spanking
>swats that a person's butt would "hurt less" for pain.
Yeah, I think this is correct.
>Neither of us have heard this until now, but did you
>ever and would you agree that to be the truth? Did you
>ever try that while getting paddled standing up, or
>think to, to clench your butt cheeks together to try
>to get less pain to your butt, and did your uncle tell
>you not to do this if he knew you were doing this?
Like I said above yes he would notice and the swats were harder. Clentching does help though but it will not go unnoticed, especially bare.
>I'm not trying to be funny or a wiseguy, really Aarron!
>My buddy mentioned that a buddy of his told him this,
>and the buddy said he did it sometimes and it worked
>for him, but last few times his dad "discovered" he
>was doing this and told him "to stop the clenching and
>keep his butt cheeks loose so his butt could feel the
>punishment pain it and he deserved for getting into
Like I said, it won't go unnoticed.
>So, I'm wondering if a guy would do this, if it really
>works for getting less pain to your butt? I've been
>thinking about trying this "clenching" next time I get
>paddled, but like I mentioned I have a tight, firm
>butt as it is and don't know if it would help me or
>not. All I know is that my bare butt really gets sore
>and hurts, like it's suppose to, when I get paddled
>laying over my dad's lap, but I guess this might be
>another "experiment" to try and check out?
Since you are well conditioned I'm not sure how much difference it will make for you but I do know that your dad will notice and will either tell you to "loosen" up or he will lay the paddle on that much harder.
>If my dad agrees to paddling me standing up, I could
>try the clenching of my butt cheeks to see if there is
>really any truth in this theory or not, less pain,
>unless you have informantion to share that you did
>this getting paddled/spanked standing up?
Like I said, you can try it but it will be discovered and most likely dealt with accordingly. You may be better off to stay relaxed and just "take your medicine"
>You are right about being bent over my dad's lap is
>the "classic" spanking/paddling position to "safely"
>spank a bare butt. I guess the tailbone would be up
>higher so there would be less chance to accidentally
>hit it to cause hurt and damage to it.
The tail bone is pulled up if your head and feet are near the ground and your butt is sticking up higher than your head and feet. If you are lying flat then no. Over the lap is not a classic position for the paddle. In fact , as I said above it might even be quite awkward depending on the size of the paddle. Standing facing the wallwith hands on the wall or bent with hands on knees are classic paddling positions.
>Reason my dad likes this way, and I do too, is that my
>dad has a better way to "pin" me down and my butt is
>positioned great for spanking. My dad holds me close
>up to him with his left arm across my back, and my
>butt is centered and my legs free to allow me to
>"kick" some, which my dad allows if I don't do alot of
>squirming and try to get off his lap, but of course
>the paddling HURTS and I will do some squriming and
>kicking of legs which he says and I agree is "natural"
>for a guy to do, and it tells my dad that his paddling
>me is doing good, besides him watching my bare butt
>turn from white to red and sore for hurt!
This position is commonly known as the otk or over the knee position. You'll have to tell me how big the paddle is. Like I said, in order for him to effectively paddle you while over his lap the paddle must be about the size of a large wooden hairbrush. The wooden hairbrush is a very wwell known spanking impliment and there are a number of forums where girls have discussed having it throughly applied to their bare bottoms and there are tears a plenty along with very crimson "smoking" bare butts. So a paddle of this size with holes will do alot of damage as you have already told me it does.
>And to have the holes drilled in the paddle to "add"
>extra hurt is, like you say, "should be an extra
>insentive to keep from having my dad to apply it to my
>I'll agree to that!
>I try to not get into trouble or mischief, and I try
>to remember how that ole paddle feels across my bare
>butt, swatting it until it's red and sore and "ON
>FIRE!", but I slip up sometimes, and you did I bet
>too, because you got several "stand up" spankings in
>that closet door frame, right?
Yep, we all slip up and then the ole paddle comes out again right!!
>Did you forget sometimes, how that ole paddle of your
>uncle's felt on your bare butt?
No, never really forgot and I had extra reinforcement because when I wasn't getting it maybe sis was and the "crack" along with her crying could certainly be heard. That would also be a strong reminder of how that could very well me "my" bare bottom. I did feel bad for sis, sometimes she really put up a fuss. That's why I guess I'm kinda curious if any of your buddies have sisters and if they get the paddle or strap and if so do they hear or possibly even see. I would also be curious depending on the answers to the above questions, how they feel when they hear / see sis getting smoked with the paddle or strap. Let me just say, be fortunate that you don't get the strap. On the bare that is like walking through the gates of hell if you get my drift.
>Speaking of paddles, where did your uncle keep that
>paddle at he used on you and your sis? My paddle my
>dad uses on me hangs on a nail beside of my bed in my
>bedroom. It served two purposes there: (1) it's
>suppose to remind me to be good and (2) it's easy and
>quick to get to when my dad needs to use it on me as
>most of my paddlings take place in my bedroom!
I have heard of that. So does it ever get discussed when your buddies come over or can you put it away before. maybe it hangs there as a "red badge of courage" of heard og jock types like yourself even bragging to their buddies on how much they can take. To answer your question , uncle kept it in his and aunts room. We knew at dinner "if one of us was going to get it" that he would soon be entering our room with paddle in hand. I saw him go into sis's room a few times. I knew she was nude and that I would soon be hearing the sound of the paddle and her as well.
>So, you say you heard about a Lexan Paddle and it's
>made of a high grade plastic and is not suppose to
>cause brusing like a wooden paddle does, but still
>gives the "BURN"? I wonder how bad a "BURN"? Worse
>then wood? It would have to be flexible some, wouldn't
>it so it wouldn't crack or break? Having drilled holes
>would really "BURN" too!
Lexans are just like wood, they come in any shape, size or thickness you want. Holes or no holes. They burn and supposedly don't bruise. I would say it depends on the one being paddled and how thick the paddle is. The lexan is probably comparable to the hardwood pain wise, no more, no less.
>Sounds kind of wicked! I hope my dad doesn't know or
>discover about a Lexan Paddle. I don't think I care to
>find out. I'll stick with the "wood finish" my dad
>tans to with!
Like I said, probably no worse than what you are getting right now.
>My dad does a "GREAT JOB" paddling me and he doesn't
>bruse my bare butt doing it, and maybe he's "checked"
>into how not to? Did any of the paddlings your uncle
>gave you caused your butt to be brused, other then the
>"normal" fire engine read after a paddling? I get that
>color and crisom red sometimes and not so red...maybe
>more a dark pink...get the picture?
Mine was crimson, both cheeks when finished. I also from time to time would sport the classic paddle "bulls eye" marks on each cheek. Sis probably did as well. By the ways, if you don't know crimson is the same color as the U of oklahoma or Alabama football uniforms. You get the point.
>Standing up paddling needs to have the swats more to
>the butt on the "sit spot"? Wonder if I will have to
>tell me dad this, for safety purposes? That is, if I
>can get him to try paddling me in this position!
>Can't have swats to the middle of the butt? Check!
If you start to sound to knowledgeable about all this he might start to ask a few questions. Your safety concern is a valid one though. Does your dad know you post on here?
>Are you laughing, about all of this? I know, I'm a
>crazy teenager guy, wanting to try something "new"
Nope, not laughing.
>Hey, that was nice of you to say all the neat stuff
>about agreeing that my dad doesn't like paddling me,
>even though it's his fatherly duty to help keep me in
>line with love by paddling me. I know he doesn't like
>to paddle me, but I'm glad he does. It's better
>punishment then getting grounded like some kids at
>school get, and this punishment WORKS for me and my
This is actually a very mature attitude Travis. No he dosen't but yes he would rather do this now than have you end up in serious trouble later under circumatances which he can do nothing about.
>It sounds corny, probably, but my dad has said the old
>line, "son, I hate doing this, paddling you! It hurts
>me too, sometimes more to have to do it, but I do it
>with love and I care about you and if your doing
>something your not suppose to be doing I would rather
>you feel pain on your butt, discomfort now, and not
>have to feel more pain in some other way or situation
>that you or I couldn't get you out of!"
Exactly, as I said above. Teach you now and prevent serious trouble in the future.
>I know it's hard for him, Aarron! I love my dad, and
>for him wanting to do this for me. I have buddies
>who's dad's do and feel the same way in paddling them
>and caring about them this way, too!
You and your buddies are very very lucky and like I said, very mature of you to realize this. It might be hard when you are staring at the carpet but yes you are lucky. Consider yourself blesed.
>I guess America would be better off, if there were
>more BOTTOMS UP getting punished this way?
Way better off.
>Thanks for you advice, that "if a bad idea pops into
>my head, that I should remember how the feel of the
>hardwood was, popping on my bare butt, and that will
>convince me it might not be a good idea after all!"
That's the whole point. He figures that if he "smokes" your bare butt good an proper this time that maybe it will be the last. Unfortunately, dosen't always pan out that way. You might be getting close by now. How old are you, 15,16,17?
>Your a great friend to tell me this, thanks Aarron.
>Nice talking with you, and I look forward to hear from
>you when you have time.
Happy to do it.