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Subject: Re: Spanking a younger sib

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Leslie

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Date Posted: 15:18:59 11/11/11 Fri
In reply to: Robert to Leslie 's message, "Re: Spanking a younger sib" on 07:58:44 11/11/11 Fri

Robert is correct that I have become "a mom" at times in dealing with my sister. I put her to bed most nights. I make her dinner often. I help her with her homework. I keep her out of trouble most of the time.

I also think that Mom is way to harsh with her paddle. It is also my job to protect my little sister. I cannot let her be paddled by Mom. But I also cannot let her go without punishment when she misbehaves.

My solution is to punish her myself. Give the punishment she deserves but not so harsh.

I thought about telling an adult what happens but that would only make it worse. The best result of telling would be foster homes where I would never see my sister. The more likely result is that someone would just tell Mom and she'll get mad. I would then get paddled with my sister because Mom is mad.

Leslie

>
>Dear Leslie,
>
>First off I would never ever encourage you to abuse
>your little sister. If I gave you that impression, I
>apologize, that was not my intention. I'm not sure
>whether or not you feel that mom using the paddle is
>abuse or not. That would depend upon how many swats,
>how hard,etc. I was only trying to relay to you that
>if "you" are spanking your little sis the sessions
>have to be "intense" enough that she comes away
>learning from it. That said, I must follow up with the
>fact that you yourself being only 14 are still a kid
>yourself and are probably not yet mature enough to be
>taking on the role of a parent which is what you are
>doing when you are punishing your sis. This is what
>beggs the question do you "enjoy" punishing your
>little sister?? If the answer is yes, then you
>shouldn't be doing it. I'm pretty sure your mom does
>"not enjoy" having to paddle you or little sis.

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Spanking a younger sib	John to leslie	15:44:59 11/11/11 Fri
Re: Spanking a younger sib -- Leslie, 22:59:32 11/12/11 Sat