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Date Posted: 12:56:26 11/04/08 Tue
Author: t
Subject: But what does a separation really mean? Does it include seeing other people?
In reply to: doc 's message, "Boy, we women have a lot of power! Let me start by saying that I don’t agree with Denise’s affair with Mac. I didn’t mind any of her other activities, right up to the tattoo, and I never thought she had an affair with Ghetti based on a single kiss. What I find interesting… (inside)" on 17:48:43 11/03/08 Mon

I would agree that Frank having relations with someone in his command is wrong. He could be courtmartialed.

If he wanted to see someone outside his command, then it probably wouldn't be wrong.

Understand we don't get to see everything that was said between Denise and Frank. Maybe seeing other people was expected so that could determine whether or not they wanted to be together.

One of the problem when Men marry younger women, they don't understand that the woman will grow as a person. The gap between them gets smaller, they become equal.

Frank is having a problem with Denise because he doesn't understand her growth of a person, that she has become independent.

She probably hasn't need Frank to survive in her daily life for a long time.

She probably has passed him intellectually since she has become a nurse. He has probably stagnated.

She also has become a leader in her community. Even CJ listens to her.

Maybe Frank's time with Jordanna will allow him to understand the growth process that all young women go through. They don't stay 19 all their lives.

I'm more disappointed that tptb have Denise involved in an affair with a much younger man who has conned her into sleeping with her.

His girlfriend probably reacted normally to his disability and needed time to ajust to the situation.

A strong Denise, whom we have come to expect this season, should have counseled him, tell him to give his girl friend time to ajust, not jump into bed with him.

Denise has become a beautiful free spirit who is exploring her new freedoms as a self sufficient person. What is the rush to get her involve with someone else.

Let her enjoy the freedom of being independent. She doesn't have to tend to her son anymore. Her husband isn't around.

Let her continue to grow as a person before making her dependent on another man.

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[> [> [> I don't know....Frank brought up the "rules" of the separation, and asked Denise about dating. She didn't say she wasn't going to, she said "I'm not planning on it..." and then she asked Frank the same, and he replied "Not likely in Iraq"...so both I don't think planned to have an affair, but they both ended up having one. For me personally even though you are separated you are still married, and NO CHEATING. If you want to start dating & sleeping with others, then get divorced & end things properly. At least both Denise & Frank are in the same leaky boat, they both have cheated. -- Jennifer, 13:23:23 11/04/08 Tue [1]


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