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Date Posted: 13:56:33 07/20/07 Fri
Author: Jubellant
Subject: I hear what you are saying but we are not talking about a smack here. We are talking about real physical aggression intent on hurting his Mom! I'd hate to be the one to accidently cut this guy off on the road.
In reply to: Theresa 's message, "Lots of people instinctually want to smack someone. Who doesn't at one time or another? Especially if it's someone who is supposed to be on your side and they seem like they're not. Boiling it down to a simple "he needs to control his temper" doesn't make it trivial, it's just boiled down to the basic element. If he controlled his temper he never would have hurt her. It's a basic thing, that is damned difficult to do for some people." on 08:36:43 07/20/07 Fri


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[> [> [> [> [> [> I wouldn't want to meet him in a dark alley either when he's angry and out of control. His instincts are primal without plotting. He flies off the handle with little regard and no control. I know a lot of people like that, and they need help. And we are talking about a smack here. He back handed his mother. Before that he'd just grabbed her. He lost his temper and few off the handle out of frustration. The last time he hurt her he was trying to tell her something and she was opposing him so he forcefully shut her up. He has no control, but pretty normal primal urges. He needs to control those urges and his temper. -- Theresa, 15:02:51 07/20/07 Fri [1]


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> That's for sure. Many say that the abuser is really a nice guy/gal when not enraged about something. Often alcohol is in the mix as well though not necessarily in Jeremy's case. Maybe I'm wrong for coming down so hard on Jeremy and should point the finger at his parents instead for letting his rage (frustration?) go unnoticed to the point that it finally led him to act out. -- Jubellant, 15:16:49 07/20/07 Fri [1]


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> You make a good point because alcohol tends to strip a person's reasoning and inhibitions and cause them to react only with primal instinct. Which is exactly what Jeremy was doing. -- Theresa, 15:38:32 07/20/07 Fri [1]


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