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Date Posted: 06:58:05 04/12/10 Mon
Author: Joel to Rick
Subject: Re: What Do You Guys Think? Yet Another
In reply to: Rick to Joel 's message, "Re: What Do You Guys Think? Yet Another" on 16:47:53 04/08/10 Thu

Hey Big Brother,

Boy you and Jeanne really must have gotten busy, after having dinner, as you mentioned getting back with me over the weekend and I don't think I overlooked any messages you planned leaving, 'cause there wasn't any further-right!

Anyways...

To answer you more. Yeaj April 1 went great for me, but NOT so good for Kyle, you'll see he finally got nerve enough to tell in Forum how I "WHIPPED HIS ASS on April 2, 2010!" I'm not shaming him for not doing it before now, Big Brother, but it sure took him long enough!

That welt I got on my little butt from the two licks Kyle gave me is almost healed, but you wait and see if I have to slide or something today in baseball I'll probably tear it up more! Kyle's "ass" has healed up pretty good!

Now about "what you think"...

Yes, I see alot of guys in school believe 50/50 chance they won't get caught, punished for bullying kids and other things, but 9 out l0 times they usually do and make the trip to see the principal and get his paddled used on their butts, besides a phone call home for a meeting with their parents, and for sure a meeting with dad at home besides with paddle/paddle or hand?

Alot of them have no fear, mostly say, "nobody can lick me or no buddy's giving me an ass whipping, principal or my old man" etc.

It urks me to hear the disrespect them call their dad an "old man", which I would NEVER think of or want to say as its wrong. A guy is lucky to have a dad and call him that! Besides, I bet there dad's would whip their butts for call him that, I bet now my dad would my little butt without hesitation, about you Big Brother? I bet you NEVER called your dad an "old man" behind his back to friends/buddies at school, fearing your butt getting whipped, besides Dave not saying it or did you, to make be "one of the boys to fit-in?"

Again 9 out of 10 kids will listen to advice by teachers/principals/school officials not to bully fellow students or do other harmful things to them that could get students kicked out of school, paddled, etc.

Yes, they jump on it fast, its part of their job to help us have a safe school to go to, if they didn't they teachers, etc. could be investigated,suspended and even fired, and some have!

Those bullying are called to the office for meeting with principal, call home and could have meeting with parents and student together; students can be given detention or paddled and if given that most will take the paddling, very little take detention or they could be suspended, or if really bad exspelled by School Board!

Yes, when younger I was razzed alot for being called a "momma's boy" cause Kyle stood up for me if I didn't try fighting my own battles and taking on the bullies.

It made me sad, angry when I saw Kyle taken away to get paddled for fighting the bullies that bullied me, and wished I had guts enough to fight them and if I earned a paddling it would be me, but Kyle said when I was younger if I couldn't handle them he and face whatever might happen to him. If that isn't being a Big Brother I don't know what is. But, I thought some of the times too, why doesn't Kyle tell me NO he won't defend me and take punishment and let me learn to fight my own battles/fights to "grow me up" etc. When he didn't then, I thought "he really is a Big Brother for me and has brotherly love for me!

Before you think, I WAS NOT TAKING ADAVANTAGE of Kyle, but scared alot of the time to fight and fear what would happen to me, me probably getting hurt/the pain and maybe punished for me being a bully or seen as one or told I was and me getting punished, didn't know if it would paddling/detention or other priviledges taken away and having to deal with my parents and what they might think of me, like would I be viewed "less by them as their son" etc. for being a troublemaker!

Yes, depending on the figtht or situation, sometimes I was concerned that the principal would seen be guilty/haul me in and worried what might happen, didn't know if it would be paddling or some other punishiment. I think one think that scared me earlier on, remember I got hauled in to principal office in second grade for playing with matches with my friend, and principal showed us paddle to scare us not to do it again and even said, "I paddle pretty hard!" that left an impression in my mind to try to be good most of the time-and again go back to worrying what might happen to me another time.

Sometimes my friendship was on the line when Kyle would get paddled or hurt, fighting my battles. He'd "write me off" sometimes, other times he'd say he could take it better then me, other times he wouldn't speak to me for day or so, but always came back to me, knowing I needed him and he needed me as a friend and Little Brother (for whatever his real reasons might be, I think is being alone child and love for me!)

Yes, knowing what I know now what a paddling feels like, I wished I had been forced to gotten one for fighting myself or instead of Kyle for me, but then I wasn't "pushed" to have it happen or it didn't happen for some reason, until my first in 11th grade. There was a few times, yes I wished it would have been different and I was blamed to get paddled and I've always wondered what it would be like to get paddled with another buddy or best of all with Kyle, but then we're getting back to April 1 when I knew it was wrong and wanted to AVOID that happening, and me knowing I need to try to set a good example to other buddies/student on and off the sports teams I play on. Not that I need them to look up to me for approval, BUT, because its the RIGHT thing to do!

Yes, most of the time KYle's dad would paddle him for defending me at school, but a few times he let Kyle off. I always felt sad/bad about that happening, Kyle would tell me to not think about it or have it "get to me" but like Dave, I was kinda in a "shell" too I guess!

Yes, Rick, I can relate to the principal paddling me in 11th grade to the same situation Dave taking the candy and his dad paddling him. I know what your trying to say.

Oh, before I forget, you mentioning about the kid hanging themself for being bullied, I want to tell you something I should have told you before, but want to.

I had a friend in 6th grade who was short, and bully kids made fun of him. I believe he was slow in growing and me and other buddies growing a little faster then him, buthe would have caught up with us. He got bullied so bad one day, none of us knew it, but next day we were told that he accidentally hung himself in his barn. He was trying a way to stretch himself with a rope, it slipped and got caught on his neck and hung him. I could not believe it when I was told he died. I got angry and wanted to find the kid and beat them up. My parents and other parents to protect us were never told for whatever reason who the "bully kid" was for teasing Archie and making him try the stretching thing. His parents didn't know he was bullied, so it was doubled sad.

I need to get off here, but...yeah Rick, I see where your coming from that Kyle, Cody and Sean and I are like the four musketeers. I believe too, Kyle wanted to get a "reaction" out of me, also to see if I was "man enough to stand up to him" which he found out in the barn with the sore ass I gave him, and believe Kyle was overdue and wanted the whipping, if not from me, do you think he would have seeked someone else to give him one? Maybe not his dad or the principal, but you think he really wanted to see if I would?

Rick, I would NEVER tell my folks that they can't tell me what to do, not fear of punishment (paddling) but I value their opinion, guidence, etc. and for knowing they love me enough to do so, caring for me, but that would be disrespctful in my mind and eyes and in my raising I've been told that it would be wrong in God's eyes and His teachings in the Bible!

Besides, I believe if I screwup on earth, and don't ask for forgiveness to God before I get to Heaven, then I believe my little butt will be in for one heck of a spanking/paddling/whipping from God.

How about you?

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Re: What Do You Guys Think? Yet Another -- Rick to Joel, 17:21:26 04/16/10 Fri
- Re: What Do You Guys Think? Yet Another -- Joel to Rick, 07:35:59 04/17/10 Sat