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Date Posted: 11:54:25 12/04/13 Wed In reply to: I'm the person who responded initially to this question 's message, "Click in" on 11:14:36 12/04/13 Wed > > > >As a previous director, and someone who has worked >with Haley, I naturally follow what she is doing. I >have seen numerous people post support of her on >Facebook. When I first read this question, I >responded in a defensive manner because I feel like >this is not a "simple curiosity". I'm sure that she >never imagined that she might win a national pageant >but since she has, I think it is important to support >her. I'm sure the MKOT directors will follow the >rules and she will only compete if the rules allow. >As someone who has coached my prelim winners in the >past, I know that many girls compete in other systems >to gain more experience. You gave yourself away when >you publicly starting asking questions about her new >role as a national queen on Facebook. Everyone has >seen it as it was posted as a comment to her picture. >Please be careful- these are young girls who have >feelings. Haley is a sweet girl and so is yours. >Pointing out other titles and trying to cause trouble >won't help the situation and could hurt your girl. >Let's not worry about whether she can compete or not- >let's just be glad that Ky has a national winner! I think the nature of this board causes people to react negatively first every time. Sadly, it really is simple curiosity where every girl who does multiple systems is concerned. Hayley is remarkable and I have never been anything but supportive of her. There is no trouble to be caused or intended. It's sad that is the immediate assumption. Wow we have a national title winner and that IS a reason to celebrate absolutely. Asking the question as to whether or not that allows her to continue in MKOT is a fair want to know question. Honestly what is wrong with asking that? It's a huge thing that she is a national winner it's well deserved and my question was not just about Hayley. There are other girls talking about and competing in other systems at the same time and I really wanted to know how that is done. Take away for one moment the spirit of negativity and realize Hayley is an example that just happened and I honestly wanted to know how that works. Has it been done before? Is it even possible? There is absolutely no value attached to the question. Is it possible to hold two at once? Why is that so horrible to ask? There is no negativity towards Hayley anywhere in any of my comments, none. This is a great topic it's a pageant board and it's a real question with a real situation. I am not giving a judgement on whether she should be allowed to compete or anything of that nature it's a real question. It is not insinuating or suggesting there was a wrong done there. What is the point of this board? It's not a hypothetical situation it's a real one and brings up a real question. It's not asked out of a competitive concern. If you knew me even a little instead of making assumptions you would know that is not my heart at all. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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| Look below | No name | 11:57:09 12/04/13 Wed |
| New poster here | My thoughts..... | 14:59:24 12/04/13 Wed |