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Subject: Re: Did they enjoy it?

Author:
Marcey

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Date Posted: 10:17:24 05/27/25 Tue
In reply to: Allison 's message, "Re: Did they enjoy it?" on 11:33:54 05/26/25 Mon

I am sorry to hear about your stepfather misuse of spanking punishment.

I was lucky (perhaps) that I was never spanked when I did not deserve it. And I got away with a number of things that should have resulted in a hot bottom but didn't.

There is a fine line between authorizing or giving a spanking that is deserved and one that is strictly for the spanker's pleasure.

At my school the principal never gave you swats. He sent you to the gym coaches to administer the punishment. So he acted as a buffer against spankings that were not deserved.

But it was clear to me that the coaches clearly enjoyed paddling students. And they enjoyed it even more if a parent came to school to administer the punishment themselves, which was usually worse than what they would have gotten from the coach.

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Brett
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Date Posted: 17:52:52 05/27/25 Tue

In a non-consensual situation, like being punished by an authority figure, that would be a bizarre experience knowing they were sexually excited by it. I'm trying to imagine if I had had a stepdad, and I knew my spanking was part of foreplay for sex with mom. How could that possibly be a good learning experience for the child? What is the meaning of punishment? How could you trust that punishment was fair? How could you ever trust that parent?

I think a critical thing about a spanking is that the disciplinarian must be worthy of respect. If the one administering the punishment lacks integrity, then what moral authority do they have? Is spanking your stepdaughter as part of sex, and for your own sexual gratification, and not even caring if the stepdaughter knows that sex with her mother follows, an example of what a good person would do? Does a good person use a child's pain to fuel their own sex drives? What does it feel like to be used in such a way by such a parent?

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Author: Marcey [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 10:14:19 05/28/25 Wed Excellent response. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]