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Subject: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:01:47 11/07/25 Fri Hi, my name is Hannah and this is my first time posting here. I’m 19, about to be 20, and live with my grandparents. I moved in with them this summer as I’m attending a community college for a degree in agriculture and they own a farm. I was not spanked growing up as my parents didn’t believe in it, though my grandparents do. They were pretty upfront when I moved in that there would be rules and expectations but they seems pretty tame. I guess I didn’t take it very seriously because things were pretty rough until a few weeks ago when they sat me down and explained there were going to be some changes if I expected to keep staying with them. One of those things was that spankings were on the table and I’ve seen gotten my first. It’s been a big changed mostly for the better though, and I’m still adjusting. I found this page and saw I’m not the only one and that made me feel better so I thought I’d post too. Thanks! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Robert to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:41:16 11/07/25 Fri Welcome Hannah. Pretty name. May I ask how your grandparents carry out your spankings? Is it granddad that does the spanking? How are you positioned? What if anything other than hand is used? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:44:47 11/07/25 Fri Hi, Robert, thanks! When they started this, they told me they would both soak if necessary, but my grandpa would only do it if I were in big trouble. He told me we’d make a trip to the barn, but thankfully that hasn’t happened yet. My Nana has spanked me twice. Both times she used an old wooden spoon that’s been her “spanking spoon” for a really long time. She does it over her lap with my pants and panties down. It hurts so bad. It’s all been a shock to me since they started. They’re treating me like I’m a kid again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:57:31 11/08/25 Sat Welcome, Hannah! That is a big change indeed. How did you handle being told being spanked was on the table after never having been spanked? There is nothing wrong with it at your age IMO, although the percentages drop off and it must be consensual, of course. Good luck to you! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Here we go [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:45:15 11/07/25 Fri Two fakers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Robert to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:57:26 11/07/25 Fri First off Hannah, just ignore the idiot Here. Do you have any idea what a trip out to the barn will involve. It sounds like something you will want to avoid. What types of things do you think would promote a trip to the barn with grandpa? BTW I'm sure that spanking spoon really burns bad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:01:03 11/07/25 Fri Thanks, it’s fine. I’m sure this place is crazy sometimes. I know he used his belt on other so I assume it would be that. I would imagine it would have to be something really bad but I’m not sure yet what. Yah, the spoon was terrible. It really took my breath away the first time she used it. It’s been hard change for me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Dear Fake Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:03:57 11/07/25 Fri The Fake Robert wants to hear about your strap been oiled and done on a table and how its so embarrassing. Two fake idiots perfect for each other. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:05:57 11/07/25 Fri What do you mean oil a strap? I’ve never heard of that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Dear Fake Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:08:13 11/07/25 Fri This is what the Fake Robert wants to here from you: Here is my whole situation. Although it's just mom, dad, and I at home, no siblings I still know the feeling of having to be fully nude for punishment. I'm currently 17. Last year I was getting it with dad's leather strap for trouble at school. My uncle was visiting at the time. he was asked to stay downstairs while we attended to a private family matter upstairs. Me!! So after dad started my spanking I looked over toward the door to his home study where my spankings take place. There was my uncle peering in watching. I was horrified and already in agony. I screamed "he's watching". He left and mom went over and closed the door. , dad wasn't done yet. After it was finished mom read my uncle the riot act for coming up and peeking. He has apologized but OMG I wanted to just DIE. Then he actually told me that he thought my breasts were just adorable. I just DIED. I was so embarrassed and yes, beet red. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:50 11/07/25 Fri Oh, well I don’t know about any of that. That’s not true of me. But Thales for the heads up. I’m just here to share my story. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Robert to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:16:00 11/07/25 Fri Hello Hannah, I have no idea what this person is talking about. My guess is they are finding posts that were made by someone and then reposting them here. Like I said, just ignore. So grandpa would use a belt. Why not just spank in your room. Why go out to the barn? Is that how your mom or dad were disciplined? Are your grandparents your mom or dad's parents? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: The FAKE Robert [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:19:37 11/07/25 Fri Posts made by Robert under various names like JanR. Fake Hannah if you only talke about your mom and the wooden spoon he will get bored. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:19:54 11/07/25 Fri I don’t know why the barn, I didn’t ask. It’s my Mom’s parents. She didn’t spank me or my brother growing up but when my grandparents told me this was something that was going to start happening, I said I was going to call my mom and they warned me she knew and supported their decision. I did call her and she told me I needed it and had for a while. My mom and her siblings were spanked growing up as long as they lived at home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Robert to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:25:15 11/07/25 Fri Well, it sounds like your parents, at least your mom supports your grandparents approach. So your mom actually feels like you have needed some discipline for a while? Why has she not used spanking especially since that is how she was disciplined. Did your parents send you to live with grandma and grandpa or was this your decision. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: The Fake Robert [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:26:49 11/07/25 Fri Only wants to talk about your grandparents approach -- the barn the belt. Figure it out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah to the fake person [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:31 11/07/25 Fri Thanks for looking out for me, that’s nice. I can’t say anything about my grandpa because that hasn’t happened yet. Otherwise, I don’t mind answering questions for now, it’s why I came here. I don’t have anyone else I can talk to about it. But if I start getting the creeps, I’ll stop! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:29:26 11/07/25 Fri She told me when I called her that I’ve needed a change for a while now but she felt I was too old for her to change but when my grandparents talked to her, they assured her I wasn’t and could do it. So she agreed. She never wanted to spank her kids but I think she regrets that now, at least with me. I chosen to come here, it was my best option. This wasn’t originally going to happen, but after several months of trouble, they decided things had to change. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Sally [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:37 11/07/25 Fri Hi Hannah! Welcome! I am 18 and still get the wooden spoon from my mom. You are not alone! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:39:17 11/07/25 Fri Thanks, Sally! It’s nice to meet someone who is in the same situation. Can I ask, what kind of rules do you have at 18? They gave me a bunch of new ones I’ve never had before and it’s so childish. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Sally [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:40:49 11/07/25 Fri Mostly for disrespect/sass and lying. Sometimes curfew. It's always over moms knee. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:43:28 11/07/25 Fri So far, the two I’ve gotten were across the knee too. My mouth has been a problem too, I feel ya. Does your Mom have any rules on things like clothing? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Sally [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:44:22 11/07/25 Fri No not on clothing rules but I dont push it lol. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:59 11/07/25 Fri lol, I get that. I’m having to learn. When was the last time you were spanked? Do you cry? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Robert to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:00:43 11/07/25 Fri Hi Hannah, I see some new is here as well. I'm sure it's nice having another female in the same boat you are to talk with. So you chose to move in with your grandparents. I hope that your new home will be a good place for you and help with the difficulties you reported having at home. Between grandma and grandpa I think you will find having rules and consequences benificial. So I will ask you what you asked Salley. Do you cry when spanked. I know that spoon must really burn. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:22:58 11/07/25 Fri Yah, it made sense for college and saving money. I’m not sure I would have if I had known this would happen but oh well. It’s been a huge adjustment and still is. All the new rules and things like Grandma enforcing modesty rules with clothes and treating me like a kid, but I’m making it. I do cry a lot when I was spanked. It hurts so bad and is so embarrassing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Robert to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:41:31 11/07/25 Fri I'm sure this is a huge adjustment for you. Just know that your grandparents are doing this out of love for you. THere are so many young people out there with no accountability for what they do. I know it seems difficult while you are over grandma's lap. Think of it as tough love. Yes, embarrassing I'm sure especially if grandpa is there during the spanking. All the more reason to avoid any trip to the barn. If you think grandma's spanking is embarrassing. That's the point. Make the experience something you seriously want to avoid. You mentioned clothing and modesty. Do I assume that you haven't always dressed in a modest way? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:46:09 11/07/25 Fri Not according to my Nana, I haven’t. That’s kind of what got me in this mess. The day they say me down to talk, we went to my room when we were done and she went through my closet and dresser and threw out whatever she deemed inappropriate. She then replaced it with things she thought was better. From jeans to underwear to shirts and dresses. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Sally to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:54:19 11/07/25 Fri There are a lot of people on two Voy forums who would ike to know why you come on with a similar story about once a month and then proclaim yourself fake and disappear? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Robert to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:58:36 11/07/25 Fri I'm sure you will get used to the new dress code. My guess is that it's not that bad. Jeans are nice. You can still look attractive in nice shirts and dresses. I'm sure her point is you can still look nice at school being dressed modestly. My suggestion is to come around to Nana's way of thinking on dress. If not, you know what the consequences will be. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Sally to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:05:03 11/07/25 Fri I cry a lot. She spanks hard and fast. I got one last week. Not sure about talking to the guy on here; seems creepy. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Ross [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:20:24 11/07/25 Fri Many leather items slowly dry out if they are exposed to the elements, and benefit from having oil rubbed into them occasionally. It's more the sort of thing you do to horse tack to maintain it. It's not usually part of the spanking ritual itself. And not usually necessary for something like a belt that gets oils from being handled daily by bare hands. But maybe somebody who had a special punishment strap would make a show of rubbing a dab of oil into it a few times a year. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Anna to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:03:36 11/07/25 Fri Hannah, I have 19- and 17-year-old daughters and a 15-year-old son and all three are still spanked over my knee on their bare bottom with hand and paddle. my daughters were last spanked together about three weeks ago for curfew violations and my son was spanked yesterday for getting in trouble at school and getting a detention. Feel free to ask me questions if you want. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Pastor Robertson [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:46:03 11/07/25 Fri And Anna, it definitely sounds like they’re showing you they still need their regular spankings, so please don’t stop. Pastor Robertson [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Anna to Pastor Robertson [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:29:26 11/08/25 Sat Pastor, I have no intention of stopping. As long as they are under my roof and I am supporting them, they will be spanked when deemed necessary. Like my mom used to tell my siblings and I "You are never too old to be spanked." Back them I did not believe her but now that I am a mom, I understand what she was saying. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: New to spanking Author: Karin_ven to Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:14:06 11/09/25 Sun I think I understand why Anna keeps holding on to her rules and methods. Don’t forget as a mom she is responsible and pays for everything. Besides that she keeps the household going. As a mom of teenagers I know what they contribute to the household. I understand why she wants to stay in charge in her own house. The discussion if spanking is still needed or if 18 is to old, is irrelevant. It works for Anna, and the young adults have the choice to move out at that age. I don’t want to sound cruel, and I want to keep the discussion open. But sorry Loran, I can understand Anna’s choice. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]