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Subject: Re: Spanking questions


Author:
CaringThroughAction
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Date Posted: 10:17:10 11/08/25 Sat
In reply to: Elsie 's message, "Spanking questions" on 02:54:36 11/03/25 Mon

Very well said, Dana.

I found through my two mentoring experiences where consensual spanking was used on young adults, that at 18+ they can indeed appreciate and understand the rationale behind spanking. Which I guess is why when the accountability part of the mentoring process was discussed, they both agreed that spanking was the best. Both had been spanked at home before leaving for college and I think that had a big part to play. It was never something I asked them to submit to as a condition of being mentored, however.

The other takeaway was that I now no longer see spanking as a "kid's punishment". which I always had thought it was up till then. Spanking is a tool. Nothing more, nothing less. Now, for someone like Elise in college who had never been spanked before for discipline, it would be interesting to see how it would pan-out.

I have ran across many over the years like Elise, around that 18-21 age range, who were never spanked but were curious about it. I would assume in a disciplinary context, given forums like this.

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Caroline
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Date Posted: 16:50:52 11/08/25 Sat

Assuming you are talking parental spankings, I'll answer from the pov as a teenager.


1.How long does a spanking last?
Honestly don't know. It seemed like forever at the time but I would guess maybe a minute.

2.Is it really different on pants, panties, bare bottom.
Never got it on the pants other than warning smacks, I would say panties offer a little protection but not much.

3. What does it feel like to have your bottom repeatedly smacked?
The best way to describe it I would say is horrible; mixed feelings of pain, anger, embarrassment, shame, and sometimes agony.

4. What is the worst instrument?
From my experience the switch, followed by the belt.

5. How long does the burn last?
Depending on the implement and severity, anywhere from a few hours to into the next day

6.What kind of a burn is it?
Different depending on the implement and severity but not sure exactly how to explain it.

7. Does your butt hurt the next day?
The few times I got the switch yes, but other than that only maybe once or twice from a severe belt whipping from dad.

8. Does it really change your behavior?
I would say yes, it wasn't anything I wanted again anytime soon.

9.Why are people so afraid of spankings?
I would say the pain.

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