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Subject: Pros and cons Author: Clair [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 15:56:41 02/26/23 Sun I ask the experts. Those of you who have done this, I mean given disciplinary spankings. Seriously a month ago I would never have believed that this actually happens. I'm proud and to be honest a little guilt ridden and weirded out to say I have done it, so I KNOW it happens. I have told my roommate that the next time I have to spank her it will be on her bare bottom. I've said it, so I have to stick to it or lose credibility. I'll be honest, I'm excited about it and really can't wait, but at the same time I'm really weirded out about it. Please list the pros and cons of the spanker pulling down the pants and panties or telling her to do it herself. I can see where both have advantages and drawbacks. I'm leaning more towards pulling them down myself. Thank you. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:50:37 02/26/23 Sun I have read she is 20 years old, so she is a legal adult. My only question would be does she consent to being spanked? If she does not, the big con would be you could be charged with assault. As long as consent is not a problem, bare bottom is the way to go about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:30:28 02/26/23 Sun You have already given consideration to the pros and cons. Ultimately for a disciplinary spanking you want to exercise full over over her and that is best determined by watching her reactions to both approaches. She may be more subdued and concerned if you are personally removing her pants and panties. Or she may react even more to your liking by having you watch at a distance as she is ordered to take off her pants and then her panties and say place he hands on her head in front of you to demonstrate full compliance. After testing both methods, choose the one that excites you the most and make it your default choice whenever she is to be given a disciplinary spanking.Soon as you gain more confidence this will all be second nature to you. Your tenant is in need of your mentoring and includes spankings as you deem necessary. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:07:48 02/27/23 Mon I'm really hoping to hear from Mork & Mindy or Mandy or Whitney or the moms who have experience with this. I've thought about just talking to the mom next door, but oh God I can't do that. One other thing is the pros and cons of pulling them both down or first the pants and then the panties. I've read that there's more drama and the point is made better with the latter method and I kind of like that idea, drawing it out and making it more dramatic. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:13:49 02/27/23 Mon I'm not an expert, but I think pulling down her pants and then pulling down her underwear and making it dramatic is the best way. It gives her more anticipation. But what do I know. If she does have stains in her underwear will you say something about it? Will you punish her for that? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:39:23 03/04/23 Sat Emmie Sue took the words right out of my mouth. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:14:47 03/04/23 Sat That's pretty much what I was thinking anyway. Thanks for confirming. I would still like to hear from Mork & Mindy though. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:12:12 03/04/23 Sat Hi Clair, what a lovely message. I'm not sure anyone in the years I've been following this board has ever asked me for my opinion so specifically. So kind of you! Sadly, I don't have any specific advice. I've done both and now that I think on it, if it's an OTK spanking I'll have them stand on my right side and I'll undo zippers, whatever, and lower first pants and then panties. Pants to ankles, panties below the knees. With males it's generally right off. Males, I've discovered, feel particularly vulnerable if they are wearing a top, a PJ top, and everything from there down is naked. Not so vulnerable if pants are around the ankles. Not sure why, just is. I suppose it's like I always felt more vulnerable when spanked if I was naked, breasts bare, than if just bare from waist down. I think we've just created Mindy's Rule of Contrition: Males topped and bare below, females bare top and bottom! So, that's my OTK approach. If I'm going to paddle, or strap, dress code is similar but when I tell them to get ready and get into position, be it bending over the back of a chair or couch arm, or lying flat on tummy on the bed, or on knees and bent on edge of the bed, whatever that's not OTK, then when I tell them to get ready and into position I expect them to bare and bend. (There's another nice turn of phrase: Bare and Bend) I use the same approach when I'm administering an enema. Hope this helps, Clair and again, thanks for asking. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:49:13 03/05/23 Sun Thank you very much for responding. That's how I've always imagined it and that's how I'm going to do it. I just can't imagine her getting naked though. Not that I wouldn't really get off on embarrassing her by showing her boobies before I spank her but that's just a little much right now. You sound like you have punished a lot of people, men and women. How did you do all this? As I've said before, maybe about 20-30% of my fantasies are getting spanked myself. If I would actually go through with it I think I hope it would be someone like you. But from the sound of it I don't think I could take it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Gantard [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:47:28 03/05/23 Sun There is a reasonable way to have Jayda undress fully outside of discipline - establish a rule that she receive weekly bath in which you scrub her all over and wash her hair. She should find it pleasurable and clearly, absent your intervention, Jayda will just allow her body to become filthy and noisome. Her actions suggest that she seeks your affection so she should welcome you bathing her. The procedure would be analogous to a mother bathing a daughter. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:52:33 03/05/23 Sun One of my greatest fantasies, but I think at least for now we'll just leave it there. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:50:58 03/05/23 Sun I'm really kind of ashamed to admit this and in a way I hope nobody reads this, but I have had fantasies about the mom next door giving me a spanking. Maybe giving me and Jayda a spanking together. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:32:01 03/05/23 Sun The reality is that most who enjoy spanking would also enjoy being spanked. It is about time, place, circumstance and the relative dominance and submissiveness of the parties to each other. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Pros and cons Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:06:35 03/05/23 Sun Mindy, that is not true. I for one and I know many on here have requested your experience and insight. You are the spanking guru. We all bow down to Mindy's wisdom (and oh how I fantasize about being turned over your knees and worship you). [ Post a Reply to This Message ]