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Sadie to Sookma and others
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Date Posted: 22:45:05 01/24/26 Sat
Hi, Sookma. You ask if it bothers me that Daddy might have the same reaction when he spanks me that my husband does when he spanks me. In other words do I know if my father gets aroused like my husband does when he spanks me. Yes, I know he does, and he has had those reactions when he spanks since I was a young girl and I became aware of that when I think it was my last year in grade school or my first year in high.
First I should add that growing up it was mother who always decided when I needed spanking, and it was the same for my two younger sisters. It was the classic case of "just you wait until your father gets home" with all three of us. And it was mom who was very strict with us, so I did get spanked quite a lot for little things right from some time before I started school as did my sisters.
In fact I don't remember any time that Daddy decided to spank any of us without being asked to by my mother, but it must have happened from time to time like when my mother was away for a day or two or even just away for most of a Saturday or Sunday. But basically it was mother who decided we were to be spanked. And that day I told you about when I was visiting my parents and got spanked by Daddy, that is the first time I can think of that it was Daddy and not my mother who decided I needed to be spanked--but my mother wholeheartedly agreed with him when my father said that.
Like I say, it was sometime in my eighth grade or maybe when I was in my first year of high that I noticed for the first time that Daddy got aroused spanking me. It was on a hot day and he was out in the driveway out front washing the car in just a jersey swimsuit, not the boxer type of swimsuit. And I was in the back yard I got into a pushing and shoving match with my next younger sister over something stupid, and we were screaming at each other and mom came out to the back porch and ordered us to come inside at once.
And of course we knew we were in for a spanking right away. And she told us to get undressed and wait in the living room and as soon as father came in she was going to have him spank us good. It was a real nice day and a lot of the neighbors were mowing lawns and tending to flower beds and what not, and mom was furious that we were fighting and that the neighbors could hear us screaming like alley cats.
When Daddy came in, he spanked my sister first, no strap, just a good hard hand spanking and she was sent up to our room to cry it out. When I went to Daddy for my turn I could see right away that there was a long bulge in his damp bathing suit going right up toward his belly button and when I went over his lap I could feel it against my bare hip when he started to spank me and I remember realizing, like wow, that is his thing! You know? First time I ever saw its outline or felt it against me like that.
Later that day, still amazed at what I saw and felt, I talked to my mother about it--whispered to her about it when we were alone is more accurate--and I could see it did not surprise or bother her or faze her at all. That is perfectly normal she told me. Most fathers, maybe not all but most she said, get erected like that when they have to give a daughter a spanking, she told me, but that never stops them from giving their daughters the discipline they need.
Then she told me that after any of us were spanked and off to our beds to cry it out, she'd always go into their bedroom with Daddy and take care of that for him. She didn't say what she did, or go into any details about what they did, but she did say that when a man like Daddy gets hard like that it really helps them if they have an orgasm afterwards. She used that word which I had heard before when kids get to talking about sex, you know. Not exactly sure I understood it clearly because it was just kids talking about sex. But I knew generally what it meant and everyone said men or boys needed that kind of release or they'd go mad. But that is all she said, it helps when men get like that if they have an orgasm.
And after thinking about that later, I understood for the first time something about the cycle of a man getting excited or aroused, staying calm about it and then getting a release later which he really needed.
So after that and until I left home, I was very aware of my father's arousal when he spanked me or my sisters, and so I didn't mind that at all. It was just a fact of my spankings. But when I watched him spank one of my sisters I always took particular notice of the bulge in his pants and I often see it "grow" or even move a little and I actually enjoyed seeing that a lot. I think I found it especially exciting to watch my sisters spankings after that and seeing that bulge appear, but it was never discussed with me again by either parent, not to this day. Sadie
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