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Subject: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Sadie
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Date Posted: 14:51:50 01/20/26 Tue

Hi, I am Sadie and I am spanked by my husband and also still by my father.

Growing up, I was spanked a lot by my father, as were my two younger sisters. Daddy spanked us with his hand first over his lap and then we had to kneel on a large leather living room chair facing the back and holding onto the back while he took off and used his leather belt on us doubled over. I was spanked like that right through high school, and so are my two younger sisters, one a sophomore in high school now and the other in the 8th grade.

When I married Ted a year ago he did not know anything about my spankings until a couple of months ago when I had been visiting Daddy and Mummy that day while he was at work and that night I tried not to let him see but when we were getting ready for bed he saw that my bottom and thighs were bright red from the spanking and the strapping Daddy gave me when I visited them.

Ted was really shocked but I explained how Daddy had got me talking about how lazy I had been during our months of marriage, not doing any sewing or knitting, not cutting up and freezing meat and vegetables like we did a lot of on their small farm (they had given us a big freezer that stood on our back porch for a wedding present), and not cleaning our kitchen and apartment like I should and not vacuuming the carpets every few days--all the kinds of things Mummy and Daddy had taught us girls to do when we were growing up to train us to be good wives.

And I told him Daddy then told me I better shape up and change my lazy ways and he gave me a good spanking and strapping to make sure I got the message. And he said the next time Ted and I came to dinner he was going to have a long talk with Ted about how Ted should discipline me regularly. And he did the next Sunday. And since then Ted has been checking what I have done each day while he was at work and now if all I did was lay around and watch TV or go out shopping or for coffee with girlfriends he doesn't hesitate to spank me right after dinner. In fact, now he spanks me and straps me a couple of times a week to keep me on my best behavior just like Daddy always did with me when I was in high school.

I have to admit, though, our sex life has gone over the roof after he started spanking me. He gets so aroused when he spanks and straps me like that, and when he gets really "up" if you follow me that makes me hot as a firecracker, too, so we often spend the whole evening after he disciplines me just on our bed making love over and over. I am on the pill since we plan to put some money away and also wait for his next promotion and raise later this year before we are ready to have children, so it looks like I am in for a lot of spankings this Spring and Summer--and you know what, that is not a complaint!

Do others agree that spankings from their husbands really gets them hot as a firecracker like it does with me?

Sadie

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband


Author:
Emily Travers
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Date Posted: 15:06:23 01/20/26 Tue

There'd be few guys in my experience who don't get supremely aroused by cp, either giving or getting or both, so I think that's likely well established. No foul there if it is to your liking.

The parental thing, however, cannot be condoned by any ethical person.
[> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Louise Vancisic
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Date Posted: 10:02:33 01/22/26 Thu

Hi Sadie. How do you feel about getting spanked by your father?
[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Sadie toLLouise
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Date Posted: 11:38:14 01/22/26 Thu

Louise asks: "Hi Sadie. How do you feel about getting spanked by your father?"

In my case to answer that fully that is three questions.

1. How do I feel when my father says he is going to spank me?

2. How do I feel when he is spanking me?

And, 3. How do I feel after the spanking is over?

Answers.

1. Pure dread. At first my knees go weak and I feel a little sick to my stomach, but then, can't explain this at all, I also feel excited, too, and a tingling sensation in my bottom that is very real.

2. When he is taking my panties down I really feel like I might faint and as a youngster I used to start in begging him like crazy not to spank me and apologizing for what I did to earn the spanking--but that never worked so now I just tear up and start leaking those tears down my cheeks and he gets me ready and puts me over his lap and I would do or say anything that I thought would get me out of the spanking--but I know by now there is nothing I can do to avoid the spanking.

3. Right after it is over I am dancing up and down in place and bawling, but then he takes me on his lap and strokes and kisses me and tells me it's all over and right away as I get myself under control I start to feel tremendous relief and when I go off to my bed to cry it out I start to feel really good. Like, it's over, it's over, and oh I am so hot and my bottom is on fire but oh it is over and oh God how I must have looked to him all bare and bouncing up and down and bawling like that, and quite quickly I get to feeling really hot right between my legs like I get when my husband is touching me and petting me when we are getting ready to make love, and usually I get the same release with my fingers lying on my bed that I get when my husband and I make love.

Sometimes, if my husband is there when my father spanks me (not always the case but sometimes these days), he will join me after I have quieted down and when I am starting to get aroused and then we always have a wonderful love-making session after my father spanks me just like we do when my husband spanks me. Sadie
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Louise Vancisic
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Date Posted: 12:31:15 01/24/26 Sat

Hi Sadie. Thanks for the well thought out response.

How often does your father spank you? How often did you get spanked as a child/teen? Does he always take your panties down?

I envy you for having a husband who knows how comfort you after a spanking.
[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Jackie
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Date Posted: 18:43:37 01/22/26 Thu


Sadie, I remember that deep utter relief when my spanking was finally OVER! All my fear shame dread released even though my bare behind was still throbbing. From the first gasp of hearing I was in for a panties-down punishment my mind would race “I want it to be OVER! I can’t stand getting spanked please please let it be OVER!
Even as the immense embarrassment (especially as a teen) of the “show” I put on bawling kicking and my humiliating dance was fresh I’d still be so relieved “it’s OVER my spanking is DONE!”

Must be very shameful being spanked like that at your age!Having my panties pulled down for it as an older teen was mortifying!
How does your dad spank?
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Louise
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Date Posted: 12:33:52 01/24/26 Sat

Hi Jackie. I can relate to your feelings about getting spanked. Which parent spanked you? How often? Did they comfort you afterward?
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Jeff
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Date Posted: 00:38:52 02/05/26 Thu

Do any mums ever chat on phone to other regarding spanking
[> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Brooke
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Date Posted: 14:06:54 01/22/26 Thu

Hello and sorry, I’ve been sick the last few days.

Oh boy! How do you handle all of those spankings? Be honest….LOL
[> [> Subject: To Brooke


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Emily Travers
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Date Posted: 16:51:35 01/22/26 Thu

Hope you are feeling better Brooke!
[> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


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Sookma
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Date Posted: 13:18:26 01/24/26 Sat

Sadie, Does it bother you that Daddy might have had the same reaction as Hubby when spanking you?
[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Sadie to Sookma and others
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Date Posted: 22:45:05 01/24/26 Sat

Hi, Sookma. You ask if it bothers me that Daddy might have the same reaction when he spanks me that my husband does when he spanks me. In other words do I know if my father gets aroused like my husband does when he spanks me. Yes, I know he does, and he has had those reactions when he spanks since I was a young girl and I became aware of that when I think it was my last year in grade school or my first year in high.

First I should add that growing up it was mother who always decided when I needed spanking, and it was the same for my two younger sisters. It was the classic case of "just you wait until your father gets home" with all three of us. And it was mom who was very strict with us, so I did get spanked quite a lot for little things right from some time before I started school as did my sisters.

In fact I don't remember any time that Daddy decided to spank any of us without being asked to by my mother, but it must have happened from time to time like when my mother was away for a day or two or even just away for most of a Saturday or Sunday. But basically it was mother who decided we were to be spanked. And that day I told you about when I was visiting my parents and got spanked by Daddy, that is the first time I can think of that it was Daddy and not my mother who decided I needed to be spanked--but my mother wholeheartedly agreed with him when my father said that.

Like I say, it was sometime in my eighth grade or maybe when I was in my first year of high that I noticed for the first time that Daddy got aroused spanking me. It was on a hot day and he was out in the driveway out front washing the car in just a jersey swimsuit, not the boxer type of swimsuit. And I was in the back yard I got into a pushing and shoving match with my next younger sister over something stupid, and we were screaming at each other and mom came out to the back porch and ordered us to come inside at once.

And of course we knew we were in for a spanking right away. And she told us to get undressed and wait in the living room and as soon as father came in she was going to have him spank us good. It was a real nice day and a lot of the neighbors were mowing lawns and tending to flower beds and what not, and mom was furious that we were fighting and that the neighbors could hear us screaming like alley cats.

When Daddy came in, he spanked my sister first, no strap, just a good hard hand spanking and she was sent up to our room to cry it out. When I went to Daddy for my turn I could see right away that there was a long bulge in his damp bathing suit going right up toward his belly button and when I went over his lap I could feel it against my bare hip when he started to spank me and I remember realizing, like wow, that is his thing! You know? First time I ever saw its outline or felt it against me like that.

Later that day, still amazed at what I saw and felt, I talked to my mother about it--whispered to her about it when we were alone is more accurate--and I could see it did not surprise or bother her or faze her at all. That is perfectly normal she told me. Most fathers, maybe not all but most she said, get erected like that when they have to give a daughter a spanking, she told me, but that never stops them from giving their daughters the discipline they need.

Then she told me that after any of us were spanked and off to our beds to cry it out, she'd always go into their bedroom with Daddy and take care of that for him. She didn't say what she did, or go into any details about what they did, but she did say that when a man like Daddy gets hard like that it really helps them if they have an orgasm afterwards. She used that word which I had heard before when kids get to talking about sex, you know. Not exactly sure I understood it clearly because it was just kids talking about sex. But I knew generally what it meant and everyone said men or boys needed that kind of release or they'd go mad. But that is all she said, it helps when men get like that if they have an orgasm.

And after thinking about that later, I understood for the first time something about the cycle of a man getting excited or aroused, staying calm about it and then getting a release later which he really needed.

So after that and until I left home, I was very aware of my father's arousal when he spanked me or my sisters, and so I didn't mind that at all. It was just a fact of my spankings. But when I watched him spank one of my sisters I always took particular notice of the bulge in his pants and I often see it "grow" or even move a little and I actually enjoyed seeing that a lot. I think I found it especially exciting to watch my sisters spankings after that and seeing that bulge appear, but it was never discussed with me again by either parent, not to this day. Sadie
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


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Louise
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Date Posted: 17:30:29 01/26/26 Mon

Hi Sadie. thank you for your articulate description of how you dealt with your father's arousal. Sounds like you had a close relationship with your Mom.

Did she ever spank you or your sisters?

How often were you spanked at various ages?
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Sadie to Louise
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Date Posted: 14:43:07 02/03/26 Tue

Hi, Louise,

First let me say that I always enjoy your posts. You have often explained so much about how your mother disciplined you that I feel like I understand why spanking remains such a fascinating subject for you. The nice thing is you don't judge others whose parents do things differently, or who are mothers who do things differently. I really respect you for that.

To answer your comments and questions. You write:

Q. Sounds like you had a close relationship with your Mom.

Yes, I did have a very close relationship with my mother who was very strict with me and my sisters but also very loving too. She never hesitated to have Daddy spank us but she was never angry or upset when she did that except on one or two occasions when we did something dangerous or something that was nasty (like deliberately getting somebody else in trouble). Even then she was calm and not angry when she had Daddy spank us later for such an offense.

Q. Did she ever spank you or your sisters?

I don't remember my mother ever spanking either one of us herself. I think she just felt that with girls it was more effective all around if Daddy did the spanking, and I think she was right about that in our case. It was so agonizing to have to wait for the spanking, and then to have to stand in front of Daddy while he undressed us with everyone looking on--that was really agonizing and embarrassing. And then he very calmly without any anger spanked us until we felt we just couldn't stand another whack, and we always danced around a lot to quiet down when he let us off his lap, so getting our spankings from Daddy was just the way it was always done with me and my sisters.

Q. How often were you spanked at various ages?

Gee, I had to think about that one really hard because we were all spanked from pre-school ages right up, in my case, until I left home. I think I'd say that from ages 6 to 10, I was personally spanked about twice a week for one thing or another, since mom ordered spankings for a lot of fairly minor things. In my last two years of grade school, when I was 13 and 14, I was certainly spanked 2 to 3 times a week at my bedtime by Daddy, and that continued for my first year of high. Then it became more like once a week, and in most of my junior year and all of my senior year is was more like once every two weeks for me, while my younger sisters were getting more frequently spanked. In my last year before I married I was doing very well in general and I was very busy also so it was about once a month or less.

As I mentioned in my first post, I was shocked when Daddy gave me the third degree about what I was and was not doing in my home after my marriage, and when he spanked me that time for my "gross negligence" as a wife, I had not been spanked in maybe four months or so. (He had given me several spankings in the last two or three weeks leading up to my marriage to keep me "grounded" you might say--needed because I was really full of myself at that time.)

Since that spanking by Daddy that I told you about that happened when I was visiting my parents after my marriage, my husband had decided to review my "accomplishments" at least once a week and he spanks me to keep my focused on my tasks at home, but we then have sex afterwards every time so I now don't really mind those at all as much as they hurt and my husband is careful to spank me good but not to excess if you can follow that. Like his spankings make me cry hard but they also arouse me terrifically, so this is both hard discipline but a real benefit for both of us I feel. (Yes, he gets aroused before and while he spanks me and the results are very noticeable, for which I am thankful not shocked.)

Sadie
[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Sadie to Louise and anyone else reading this
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Date Posted: 15:28:36 02/03/26 Tue

Hi, again, Louise,

After that last post I just sent you, I got out the calendar and tried to figure out about how many times my father has spanked me during my day visits to my parents since that first time he spanked me for my then admittedly very poor performance of my wifely duties. I visit them about once a week, driving over there for lunch and then leaving to go home in time to get dinner ready for my husband, so it has been about eight visits like that since that first time my father spanked me after my marriage that I told you about.

On these visits now it is now my mother who goes over my work at home and who decides if I need a spanking from my father on a given visit. On the eight visits I have counted, I have been spanked three more times by my father and, in my opinion, two of those were in fact definitely earned, but one was for a pretty weak reason.

To be completely honest, I feel that one spanking was because I had not been spanked on my prior two visits to them and my mom just wanted me to get a good spanking that she and my father could enjoy (as did one of my sisters who happened to also be there at the time). So my mother found a reason, but in my opinion, it was one that really didn't warrant a spanking. Was I upset by that? To be honest, not really, since I love both my parents and I know how much my father still enjoys spanking me even though I am now married.

I should mention that when I have gotten spanked on those visits, it is shortly after I arrive and after we have a nice leisurely lunch, while we talk about my "doings" and my omissions during that lunch. It is then that mom decides whether I need a spanking and we go in the living room to take car of that. Afterwards I go to my old room and lie on the bed to cry that out for a while and nap a little before I get dressed again. While I do that, my parents go to their room and "nap" for a while, too, which needs no other comment if you are following these events carefully.

So, by my count today, on five of the visits I have not been spanked by my father, but on three I have been. On the days of my visits to my parents, my husband does take note each time when he get home whether his obedient wife has been spanked by her father, and if we talk about that a little after dinner, I have found that it is not just my mother who gets some subsidiary benefits when spankings have occurred. The more details I tell my husband about any spankings that were received, the more subsidiary benefits that seem to flow my way also--LOL! To me, being spanked by both my father and my husband is a complicated but not totally unpleasurable experience. Sadie
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Louise Vancisic
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Date Posted: 06:10:00 02/06/26 Fri

Thanks for the detailed answer. I hope we can keep this dialogue going.

I was spanked a lot for being irresponsible or daydreaming.

You seem to love and respect your parents quite a bit.

You are quite fortunate.
[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


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Sadie to Louise and others
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Date Posted: 14:14:50 02/06/26 Fri

Hi Louise,

Thanks as always for you pleasant and courteous comments even when my posts concern things that are apparently outside of your personal experience--like being spanked by both my father and my husband. You are right that there is a lot of love and respect circulating in our family and I feel the spankings are an important part of that.

It felt definitely weird to be spanked by my father after I had been married and away from home for a bit and when I was just visiting my parents for the day. That was the first time my father spanked me since the week before I was married and I was terribly embarrassed when he put me over his lap with my mother looking on and when he raised my skirt up high on my back and pulled my panties down to my knees.

He had always spanked me bare bottom when I lived at home, and often completely naked even when I was in high school and that continued right through the year before I married, but for whatever reason that spanking after I was married and away for a while felt very different and I felt more "naked" than I had ever felt before getting spanked.

But then, after it was over, a felt those same feelings of love and respect for my parents that I had always felt when I lived at home. I knew I deserved the spanking so that made a big difference in my reaction, but I remember when it was over and I was dancing it out I felt very excited and wet between my legs, which always happened when he spanked me, but that time the arousal was even greater than usual, and I think I realized how much I had missed my spankings without even being aware of that fact. I get the same feelings now each time I get spanked on one of my afternoon home visits, and I also get very excited when he spanks me naked (which he usually does now as he mostly did when I lived at home).

And now, since my husband spanks me fairly regularly, I have grown very accepting of his spankings, too, and for whatever reasons getting spanked by both my father and husband really seems to work well for us. Sadie
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father


Author:
Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 09:19:49 02/07/26 Sat

You are a lucky woman Sadie to have found such a compatible husband.

Were you also spanked by your mother? Are you still spanked naked or is it more skirt up?
[> Subject: Domestic Discipline Chat Forum on Voy


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Diana
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Date Posted: 09:28:38 02/06/26 Fri

You might be interested in a new forum focusing on domestic discipline. Please visit at https://www.voy.com/251358/
[> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Chat Forum on Voy


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Sadie to Diana
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Date Posted: 14:22:31 02/06/26 Fri

Thank you for that suggestion and that link, Diana. I will certainly check that out.

It still seems odd to me that what has simply developed unplanned in my relationships with my parents and husband falls into a category like Domestic Discipline, meaning that many other wives and husbands have similar experiences. I knew growing up in a small rural town like we still live in that many of my schoolmates got spanked at home, but I had hardly ever heard of a wife getting spanked by her husband until very recently. Now I know I a far from alone in that respect. Again, thanks for the note and link. Sadie


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